Three full days means you get three complete coaching days dedicated to your marriage. A typical day runs from about 9:00am to 6:00pm, but the exact schedule can shift based on travel. Some days may include an evening session instead of a full daytime block. The goal is to give you focused, uninterrupted time to work through what your marriage needs most.

You’ll choose the month and dates together with us, based on what works best for your schedule and ours. This is something we decide during your first Zoom call, where we look at availability and lock in the timing that fits your situation. The goal is to find dates that give you the space and focus you need for the intensive.

Once you sign up, you’ll be taken straight to a page where you can schedule your first Zoom call. After that, you’ll receive a link to book the remaining sessions, or your coach will help schedule them with you during that first call. It’s simple, clear, and set up so nothing gets missed.

The in-person intensive gives you three full days of focused, face-to-face work that creates the kind of breakthrough some couples cannot reach online. Being physically present helps us read the room, slow things down, and walk you through the deeper layers that breathe life back into a struggling marriage. Those three days give couples space to reconnect, rebuild trust, and finally break the patterns that have kept them stuck. Some couples simply prefer doing this work in person, where they feel safer, more supported, and more grounded. And getting away from the busy hustle and bustle of everyday life makes it easier to focus on each other without distractions, which is a huge part of why the in-person experience is so powerful.

At this time, there is no payment plan available. The intensive is a one-time payment that secures your dates and all three days of coaching. If anything changes in the future, we will update this section.

If you’re unsure whether the intensive is the right fit, we recommend choosing the 199 dollar option and booking a coaching call. This gives you space to share your story, ask questions, and get clarity on what your marriage needs. It’s the best way to get personalized guidance before making a bigger decision.

Yes. The in-person intensive only works when both husband and wife are willing to show up, lean in, and do the work together. These three days require honesty, openness, and commitment from both sides. When you’re both on board, the breakthrough is stronger and the results last.

The intensive takes place in a cozy, peaceful home in Gold Canyon, Arizona called the Living Waters Retreat. It’s a quiet setting that gives couples space to breathe, talk, and focus without the noise of everyday life. The environment itself helps you slow down and lean into the work, which is a big part of why the experience is so transformative.

Yes. When a marriage is in crisis, this is often the next best step. We’ve worked with couples facing some of the hardest and most painful situations, and we’ve seen major breakthroughs even when things felt “too far gone.” The intensive gives you time, support, and guidance to slow everything down and start repairing what has been breaking. If you’re in a severe crisis, you’re not alone—this was created for moments like this.

Many couples come to us after counseling, therapy, or church meetings didn’t move the needle. The intensive is different because it gives you three full days to dig into the real roots, not just the surface symptoms. We guide you through both the emotional and spiritual layers that typical counseling often misses. When couples finally get uninterrupted time, clear direction, and practical tools, things begin to shift. Even if past attempts failed, this can still bring the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.

Your investment covers all three full days of in-person coaching, your intake process, four Zoom sessions. You’re getting hands-on guidance, teaching, exercises, and breakthrough work designed specifically for your marriage.

We walk you through inner healing and deliverance, communication work, healing conversations, emotional and spiritual restoration, practical tools, and real conflict-resolution in real time. These days are structured but flexible, so we can address exactly what your marriage needs most. You’re not rushed, and nothing is surface level.

Yes. You’ll leave with clear next steps, tools, and assignments to help you keep the momentum going at home. After the intensive, you’ll also have a follow-up Zoom session where we check in, support you, and help you stay on track.

Absolutely. Everything shared is kept private, and the entire intensive is held in a safe, confidential environment. Your story stays with us.

Yes. Many couples come to the intensive while separated. The structure and depth of the process help bring clarity, reduce confusion, and rebuild connection in a way traditional counseling can’t always reach.

Yes. Most couples we work with have opposite communication styles. We help you slow down, understand each other, and build new ways of talking that finally land. Different styles are not a barrier—they’re part of the process.

Yes. These are some of the most common and painful situations couples come to us with.

Here’s how we help:
• We walk with you through infidelity, emotional affairs, pornography, substance use, and other addictive patterns
• We help you process long-term hurt, betrayal, resentment, and broken trust
• We help you slow things down, get grounded, and see what your next right step is
• We focus on clarity, stability, and wisdom, not panic decisions
• We help you build a clear pathway forward, even when things feel confusing or overwhelming

What we don’t do:
• We don’t rush you into quick fixes
• We don’t force reconciliation or separation
• We don’t replace licensed therapy or medical care

How support works if deeper help is needed:
• We help you discern what kind of support is needed
• We can refer you to trusted counselors, therapists, or addiction support when appropriate
• We stay in our lane while helping you see the bigger picture clearly

Yes—we do work with just one spouse when that is the wisest next step.

In many marriages, one person is ready before the other. When that happens, starting individually can still bring clarity, healing, and forward movement. We’ve seen God do powerful work through one surrendered heart.

That said, every situation is different. We don’t want you guessing or feeling pressured into a decision.

We strongly recommend scheduling a Find Out More Information Call ($199) down below. During that call, we’ll listen to your situation, answer your questions, and prayerfully discern together whether attending the intensive individually or as a couple is the best next step for you right now.

If you decide to attend the intensive on your own, the cost is $3,250.

If you have additional questions or need clarification before booking a call, you’re also welcome to email us at
support@identitypointcoaching.com

You don’t have to figure this out alone. We’re here to help you take the next right step with wisdom and peace.