Discover the step-by-step method I used to finally get us on the same page in our marriage.
The approach I used to restore the honor and respect with Mike that allowed him to finally feel valued at home...which totally transformed his desire to want to be around me.
My simple, 3-step tool to turn any difficult conversation into a moment of healing and connection.
20 easy to follow video lessons that walk you through how to talk with your husband so he REALLY sees you, hears you, and understands you.
You will master powerful strategies to gain control of your emotions when triggered in an argument.
Learning the truth about what's really going on and what to do with it—no more believing the lies or feeling guilty.
Personal exercises, including the right words to use to help you move past the small talk and have deeper conversations without making him defensive.
You will be guided on how to deal with your emotions and will know how to respond with confidence instead of reacting in frustration.
Knowing how to set clear boundaries (and how to follow through with them) that match your values and stop the dysfunctional conversations.
You'll learn how to trust God to change your husband, so you don't have to stress about 'fixing him' yourself (because you already know that doesn't work.)
You will get your confidence back while knowing how to share your feelings, the right time to talk about issues, and how to stop nagging, complaining, and criticizing for good!
Will this really work if i feel like I don't event know how to talk to him anymore without it turning into an argument?
YES!
Here’s why...
More than likely you married your husband because he's different than you...and that's a really good thing.
'Two are better than one' and you should be celebrating each other, not tolerating or
rejecting each other's differences.
I’ll share how I realized that if we were going to fix our communication,
it had to start with me.
It’s not about who needs to change; it’s about who’s willing to change.
Most of us were never taught this stuff growing up, so don’t worry—I’ve got you!
You don't have to walk on eggshells anymore.
You can talk without it turning into a flight so he can feel honored and you can feel loved.
Would you be able to share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns openly without fear of judgment or dismissal?
Would you feel deeply understood and connected on an emotional level, where you can empathize with each other's joys and struggles?
Would you discuss and plan your future together, aligning your goals, and supporting each other's dreams?
Would you communicate with mutual respect, where you listen actively to each other and value each other's opinions?
Would you resolve conflicts calmly and constructively, finding solutions together rather than escalating disagreements?
Would you receive words of affirmation and encouragement from your husband, knowing he believes in you and supports you.
Would you spend quality time together, where you engage in meaningful conversations and create cherished memories.
Would you dream of you husband understanding you non-verbal cues, like body language and facial expressions, to better connect with your emotions.
Would you discuss your faith together, praying together, and growing spiritually as a couple.
Would you celebrate each other's successes and milestones, knowing you are each other's biggest cheerleaders.
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