The Husbands of Valor Intensive
Get My Entire Blueprint on How
I Saved My Marriage.
For the man who’s done feeling defeated—biblical mentorship to help you rise up, lead your family, and fight for your marriage God’s way.
3 SHIFTS THAT WISE WIVES ARE USING TO SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE AND LIVE OUT THE BIBLE’S BLUEPRINT FOR IT.
3 Shifts Every Husband of Valor Makes to Restore His Marriage and Lead His Home with Honor.
Even if you’ve tried counseling and it hasn’t worked…
MY TRAINING SHOWS EVERY PART OF THE PROGRAM AND WHY IT MATTERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE. NO TIME NOW?...YOU CAN SCROLL BELOW TO SEE WHAT’S INCLUDED AND WATCH IT LATER.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
How our my redemption story began…
In 2011, I was sitting on a couch in the lobby of the Westin in Paris, France, when a mentor of mine said something that rocked me to my core:
“If there are any generational patterns of dysfunction in your family, they will not end…until someone has the courage break them.”
That hit me right between the eyes.
The truth? I was a highly functional, closet alcoholic. Janelle knew...
But the rest of the world didn’t. And I was tired—tired of hiding it. Tired of living a double life.
Something broke inside me that day (in the best way possible).
I dropped the anchor and said, Enough is enough.
In that moment I knew what I wanted...to become the husband my wife could be proud of.
She loved me, but deep down, I knew I was called to more—and she deserved better.
Maybe you’re here because something inside you is tugging at you to change… to become the husband you know you can be for your wife and for God.
Maybe you’re tired of the same arguments.
Maybe you’re tired of feeling like nothing you do is ever good enough for her.
You’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
There’s a man inside you who was designed to lead—and lead with honor.
There’s a clear path forward. And if you’re ready… keep reading.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
This is for you if you're not ready to give up
on your marriage and you need healing,
equipping and direction.
MY TRAINING SHOWS EVERY PART OF THE PROGRAM AND WHY IT MATTERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE. NO TIME NOW?...YOU CAN SCROLL BELOW TO SEE WHAT’S INCLUDED AND WATCH IT LATER.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
How our redemption story began...
In 2011, I was sitting on a couch in the lobby of the Westin in Paris, France, when a mentor of mine said something that rocked me to my core:
“If there are any generational patterns of dysfunction in your family, they will not end… unless you break them.”
That hit me right between the eyes.
In that moment, I knew I had to be the one to break my family’s cycle of alcohol addiction.
The truth? I was a highly functional, closet alcoholic. Janelle knew...
But the rest of the world didn’t. And I was tired—tired of hiding it. Tired of living a double life.
Something broke inside me that day (in the best way possible).
I dropped the anchor and said, "Enough is enough!"
From that moment forward, I wanted a different life. I wanted to become the husband my wife could be proud of.
She loved me, but deep down, I knew I was called to more—and she deserved better.
Maybe you’re here because something inside you is tugging at you to change… to become the husband you know you can be for your wife and for God.
Maybe you’re tired of the same arguments.
Maybe you’re tired of feeling like nothing you do is ever good enough for her.
You’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
There’s a man inside you who was designed to lead—and lead with honor.
There’s a clear path forward. And if you’re ready… keep reading.
Here's what to Expect Inside the Husbands of Valor Intensive:
Week 1: Positioned to Lead – Aligning Your Heart Before You Take Action.
You’ll get the HOV Biblical Blueprint—a battle plan built on God’s Word with practical steps to bring healing and restoration to your marriage. When everything feels shattered, it’s easy to get lost and wonder, “Where do I even start?” This blueprint cuts through the confusion, lays out the path, and gives you a clear starting point so you can lead with confidence and fight for your marriage.
5 reasons you’ve got to shift your heart posture before you can truly start to heal.
The 7 biblical principles for rebuilding your marriage on your own – and how to walk them out.
The 6 Proven Strategies to Restore Your Marriage—God’s Way.
Week 2: Leaving the Past and Leading Your Future.
Confront what’s been holding you back. You’ll take an honest look at your past so you can stop dragging old wounds into your marriage and start showing up as the man God’s called you to be.
Break free from generational patterns. Learn how your family tree has shaped your thinking, behavior, and leadership—and how to rewrite that legacy starting now.
Understand the impact of your parents—without staying stuck in blame. You’ll unpack how your relationship with your father and mother shaped your identity, your emotions, and how you relate to your wife.
You’ll release the weight and discover the truth about biblical forgiveness—what it is, what it’s not, and why it’s key to walking in peace, strength, and emotional freedom.
Week 3: The Enemy’s Worst Nightmare – A Man Who Knows Who He Is
How to hear God’s voice. If you’re not hearing Him, how can you know His will for your life and marriage.
Discover your true, God-given identity – no longer living in fear, shame, or the past.
The 5-step process to walk confidently in your identity and truly know who you are.
How to create a home filled with peace, no matter what’s going on around you.
The key to your wife's heart is vulnerability and you'll learn how to master your emotions without being emotion-less.
Here's what to Expect Inside the Husbands of Valor Intensive:
Here's what you're going to learn inside the Wise Wives Room:
Week 1: Positioned to Lead – Aligning Your Heart Before You Take Action
You’ll get the HOV Biblical Blueprint—a battle plan built on God’s Word with practical steps to bring healing and restoration to your marriage. When everything feels shattered, it’s easy to get lost and wonder, “Where do I even start?” This blueprint cuts through the confusion, lays out the path, and gives you a clear starting point so you can lead with confidence and fight for your marriage.
5 reasons you’ve got to shift your heart posture before you can truly start to heal.
The 7 biblical principles for rebuilding your marriage on your own – and how to walk them out.
The 6 Proven Strategies to Restore Your Marriage—God’s Way.
Week 2: Leaving the Past and Leading Your Future
Confront what’s been holding you back. You’ll take an honest look at your past so you can stop dragging old wounds into your marriage and start showing up as the man God’s called you to be.
Break free from generational patterns. Learn how your family tree has shaped your thinking, behavior, and leadership—and how to rewrite that legacy starting now.
Understand the impact of your parents—without staying stuck in blame. You’ll unpack how your relationship with your father and mother shaped your identity, your emotions, and how you relate to your wife.
You’ll release the weight and discover the truth about biblical forgiveness—what it is, what it’s not, and why it’s key to walking in peace, strength, and emotional freedom.
Week 3: The Enemy’s Worst Nightmare – A Man Who Knows Who He Is
How to hear God’s voice. If you’re not hearing Him, how can you know His will for your life and marriage.
Discover your true, God-given identity – no longer living in fear, shame, or the past.
The 5-step process to walk confidently in your identity and truly know who you are.
How to create a home filled with peace, no matter what’s going on around you.
The key to your wife's heart is vulnerability and you'll learn how to master your emotions without being emotion-less.
Week 4: The Man Who Leads Well – Respect, Legacy, and God-Given Purpose
Clarity on your God-given purpose so you can lead your life, marriage, and family with direction and strength.
A clear vision for your future that energizes your work, deepens connection at home, and keeps you focused on what truly matters.
You'll have the ability to spot and avoid common traps that ruin even the best men. You'll spot these landmines a mile away so you can stay focused on your mission as a husband, father and leader.
You'll build a legacy that helps you make intentional choices today that impact your family for generations.
Week 4: The Man Who Leads Well – Respect, Legacy, and God-Given Purpose
Clarity on your God-given purpose so you can lead your life, marriage, and family with direction and strength.
A clear vision for your future that energizes your work, deepens connection at home, and keeps you focused on what truly matters.
You'll have the ability to spot and avoid common traps that ruin even the best men. You'll spot these landmines a mile away so you can stay focused on your mission as a husband, father and leader.
You'll build a legacy that helps you make intentional choices today that impact your family for generations.
Week 5: The Warriors Way to Love
A clear understanding of how and why your wife is wired so you can connect with her in a way that actually lands and builds trust.
Practical strategies to rebuild emotional connection using the Love More and Love Bank method—daily steps that make a real difference.
Daily habits that keep you grounded in love, not just reaction—so you can lead your home with consistency and strength..
The tools to love your wife from a place of identity in Christ, not pressure or performance—restoring intimacy, safety, and respect in your marriage.
What would your 'dream marriage' look like?
Week 6: The Man Who Owns His Words – Building a Legacy of Respect
The awareness and control to speak life over your wife and marriage, even in moments of tension or conflict.
A mindset shift that puts you in command of your responses, so you stop reacting and start leading with wisdom.
Tools to lead your home with strength, whether you're in a traditional or blended family dynamic.
Practical ways to align your words and actions, so they build trust, respect, and emotional safety in your marriage.
It’s time to take a stand, reclaim your voice and initiate the changes you want to see in your marriage today.
Week 7: The Secure Wife –
How a Man Makes Her Feel Safe & Loved
The 7 proven ways to make your wife feel secure and valued, creating an atmosphere where love and respect will thrive.
I walk you through the daily actions that strengthen emotional connection, so your wife feels seen, supported, and cherished.
You'll build a long-term mindset for serving your wife with consistency, not from pressure or performance.
Practical ways to show affection that actually land, building intimacy and trust with the woman who matters most.
Week 5: The Warriors Way to Love
A clear understanding of how and why your wife is wired so you can connect with her in a way that actually lands and builds trust.
Practical strategies to rebuild emotional connection using the Love More and Love Bank method—daily steps that make a real difference.
Daily habits that keep you grounded in love, not just reaction—so you can lead your home with consistency and strength.
The tools to love your wife from a place of identity in Christ, not pressure or performance—restoring intimacy, safety, and respect in your marriage.
Week 6: The Man Who Owns His Words – Building a Legacy of Respect
The awareness and control to speak life over your wife and marriage, even in moments of tension or conflict.
A mindset shift that puts you in command of your responses, so you stop reacting and start leading with wisdom.
Tools to lead your home with strength, whether you're in a traditional or blended family dynamic.
Practical ways to align your words and actions, so they build trust, respect, and emotional safety in your marriage.
Week 7: The Secure Wife - How a Man Makes Her Feel Safe & Loved
The 7 proven ways to make your wife feel secure and valued, creating an atmosphere where love and respect will thrive.
I walk you through the daily actions that strengthen emotional connection, so your wife feels seen, supported, and cherished.
You'll build a long-term mindset for serving your wife with consistency, not from pressure or performance.
Practical ways to show affection that actually land, building intimacy and trust with the woman who matters most.
Week 8: Finish Strong, Lead Stronger – Communication and Leadership at Home
A clear understanding of your wife’s need for communication, and how to engage her in a way that builds connection instead of frustration and confusion.
Practical steps to lead your marriage with clarity and consistency, even when emotions are high or things feel uncertain.
Tools to stay steady through future highs and lows, so you're not thrown off course when life hits hard.
A personal blueprint for continuing your growth as a man of God, long after the program ends.
HOW DOES THIS ALL WORK?
STRUCTURE? EXPECTATIONS? WORKLOAD?
LET'S PUT THIS ALL TOGETHER...
When you make the decision, you move. No more waiting. We'll take action today and start rebuilding what matters.
Weekly, live 1 hour Q&A coaching Zooms every Friday at 10am PST to ask me and my team any questions during our 8 weeks together. If you can't hop on for whatever reason, no worries, they're all recorded!
Three private 1-on-1 (60 min) coaching sessions — You’ll have personal support and guidance at the beginning, middle, and end of your journey. Scheduling these is flexible.
Straightforward, power-packed video modules you can move through at your own pace. Each week, you’ll get new sessions filled with real-world strategies, biblical truth, and tools I’ve personally recorded to help you shift the atmosphere in your heart and home. It’s about two hours a week—no fluff, just clear direction on where to start and how to lead with strength.
8 weeks of access to the private Husbands of Valor WhatsApp group—a solid space where real men show up, ask straight questions, get direct support, and stay sharp through accountability, encouragement, and prayer from me and our team.
GETTING STARTED
Single Pay (save more!)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
Split Pay (2 payments)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
Hear It from the Men Who’ve Been There...
Chris's Story
"We had Eighteen years of dysfunction, constant strife, and broken trust and were on the brink of divorce. I was involved with another woman and alcohol had a grip on my life. We both wanted out but my wife decided one day to get help and that's where she met Janelle and I met Mike a few months later..."
Joe's Story
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing
another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me
gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Chad's Story
"We were not in a good spot after our first child was born and were drifting away from each other- emotionally and sexually and we knew something needed to change or we wouldn't make it.
This is when we found Mike and Janelle and it was the best decision to join Marriage Ignite because they brought us closer to our faith and we see God working in our lives like we've had before!"
Mike's Story
After 33.5 years of marriage filled with highs and lows, I found myself in a season of deep disconnect from my wife, Julie — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
We weren’t going to church together, communication was broken, and I often felt judged, disrespected, and condemned.
When we connected with Mike and Janelle and committed to their coaching, I knew it was our last shot at real healing — and within weeks, we began experiencing powerful breakthroughs.
One of the biggest turning points for me was a personal spiritual moment during worship that set me free from years of condemnation and opened the door for us to reconnect in faith.
Today, our marriage has joy, peace, and purpose again — and I can say without hesitation that if you’re in a dark place like we were, this program can help you find the light.
Brady's Story
We have been married for 18 years, raising 3 kids under 12 and for the first time as parents we were both working full time jobs. We were not making our relationship a priority and just didn’t seem like we were on the same page, we lacked communication. We didn’t want to just have a good marriage, but we wanted a great marriage.
Through working with Mike I was able to really see things through Joy’s point of view and learn to ask the why behind what she was feeling. We improved our conversations by asking better questions. Now we are making our marriage and relationship a priority by going on dates and spending the last few minutes of the day talking to each other.
God has been awakening dreams in us for our future and we are planning to renew our wedding vows next summer on our 20th wedding anniversary.
Ron's Story
Before starting with Mike were at our wits end. We struggled with communicating about most everything.
We were defensive, emotional, short-tempered and frustrated. Our discontent of our business and finances had bled into our marriage family life and we needed help fast!
Financial conversations were one of our biggest struggles, both personal and in business.
Mike helped us put structures together that really have transformed those, once avoided conversations, to power strategy sessions of growth and intention. We are working as teammates now and we are having so much fun with our new weekly dates and intentional nightly check-ins.
Scott's Story
Krystal and I have been married for 23 years (2nd marriages for both) and we also own a business.
I spent 17 years in law enforcement and am a Marine and I'll be honest, I wasn't a touchy-feely kind of dude. They don't train for that in the military or being a cop.
My wife on the other hand was wired by God a lot different and I didn't know how to be with her emotions, let alone mine.
I started learning things about myself that I didn't even know I needed to learn!
Not only has our marriage been resurected but the relationships with our children has comletely transformed.
This process in working with Mike helped me stay accountble and he encouraged me to go beyond what we could have even thought possible. We learned to embrace change, even though it may have been tough at first, but the rewards are so worth it and caused us to grow in ways I never expected.
Josiah's Story
We had gotten to the point of feeling like we were not right for each other and felt that eventually our differences would completely pull us apart. We felt like we were misunderstood by the other, we were struggling with anxiety and depression, and we were walking on eggshells around each other.
We would consistently say that the reasons we were still together were our children and we knew we didn’t want our children to pay the price of a separation so I jumped in working with Mike and much to our surprise the marriage coaching I received was more for our personal relationship with Christ and working on ourselves and spiritual needs. By working on our relationship with the Lord and healing our individual hearts, our relationship and trust in the Lord improved, our marriage improved and everything else fell into place.
Our sex life improved almost overnight because of our communication and connection outside the bedroom. Our anxiety and depression improved.
Our marriage is the most important relationship we have, and it is now number 1 in our life after God.
We are starting to dream again and feel more comfortable with taking risks. We are more comfortable with each other, and we have learned skills that we will continue to use throughout our marriage.
Kevin's Story
Thank you doesn’t cover what Janelle and Mike have done for our marriage. We are beyond blessed by the two of them. God has provided us both with two friends and mentors that are the “Real Deal”. Jesus is in them and on them in such a powerful way that they can’t help but impact lives all around them.
Our legacy, our family will forever be altered by the commitment you both have in following God’s call on your lives.
The other night we were out to dinner talking about how much our lives have changed and God showed us something about Mike and Janelle’s marriage ministry. You two are the “Tip of a Spear”. Your ministry is so powerful. God is using them for a specific task and a time such as this.
As you know , if you are reading this the enemy wants to wreck homes/marriages. There are not a lot of people out there doing what Mike and Janelle do.
Their ministry strikes people to their core, and this is why God is showing us the tip of the spear. They are taking out the enemy in the process of helping heal marriages. The enemy cannot stand a chance once you learn what they teach. So many people are being set free because of their commitment.
Week 8: Finish Strong, Lead Stronger – Communication and Leadership at Home
A clear understanding of your wife’s need for communication, and how to engage her in a way that builds connection instead of frustration and confusion.
Practical steps to lead your marriage with clarity and consistency, even when emotions are high or things feel uncertain.
Tools to stay steady through future highs and lows, so you're not thrown off course when life hits hard.
A personal blueprint for continuing your growth as a man of God, long after the program ends.
HOW DOES THIS ALL WORK?
STRUCTURE? EXPECTATIONS? WORKLOAD?
LET'S PUT THIS ALL TOGETHER...
When you make the decision to move, we'll take action today and start rebuilding what matters.
GETTING STARTED
Option 1:
Single Pay
(save more!)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
Option 2:
Split Pay
(2 payments)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
OK...BUT WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
The HOV intensive is built for 3 types of men:
If you’ve had any of these thoughts, you're in the right place—and this will equip you...
Hear It from the Men Who’ve Been There...
Chris's Story
"We had Eighteen years of dysfunction, constant strife, and broken trust and were on the brink of divorce. I was involved with another woman and alcohol had a grip on my life. We both wanted out but my wife decided one day to get help and that's where she met Janelle and I met Mike a few months later..."
Joe's Story...
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Chad's Story...
"We were not in a good spot after our first child was born and were drifting away from each other- emotionally and sexually and we knew something needed to change or we wouldn't make it.
This is when we found Mike and Janelle and it was the best decision to join Marriage Ignite because they brought us closer to our faith and we see God working in our lives like we've had before!"
Mike's Story
After 33.5 years of marriage filled with highs and lows, I found myself in a season of deep disconnect from my wife, Julie — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
We weren’t going to church together, communication was broken, and I often felt judged, disrespected, and condemned.
When we connected with Mike and Janelle and committed to their coaching, I knew it was our last shot at real healing — and within weeks, we began experiencing powerful breakthroughs.
One of the biggest turning points for me was a personal spiritual moment during worship that set me free from years of condemnation and opened the door for us to reconnect in faith.
Today, our marriage has joy, peace, and purpose again — and I can say without hesitation that if you’re in a dark place like we were, this program can help you find the light.
Brady's Story
We have been married for 18 years, raising 3 kids under 12 and for the first time as parents we were both working full time jobs. We were not making our relationship a priority and just didn’t seem like we were on the same page, we lacked communication. We didn’t want to just have a good marriage, but we wanted a great marriage.
Through working with Mike I was able to really see things through Joy’s point of view and learn to ask the why behind what she was feeling. We improved our conversations by asking better questions. Now we are making our marriage and relationship a priority by going on dates and spending the last few minutes of the day talking to each other.
God has been awakening dreams in us for our future and we are planning to renew our wedding vows next summer on our 20th wedding anniversary.
Ron's Story
Before starting with Mike were at our wits end. We struggled with communicating about most everything.
We were defensive, emotional, short-tempered and frustrated. Our discontent of our business and finances had bled into our marriage family life and we needed help fast!
Financial conversations were one of our biggest struggles, both personal and in business.
Mike helped me put structures that really have transformed those, once avoided conversations, to power strategy sessions of growth and intention.
We are working as teammates now and we are having so much fun with our new weekly dates and intentional nightly check-ins.
Scott's Story
Krystal and I have been married for 23 years (2nd marriages for both) and we also own a business.
I spent 17 years in law enforcement and am a Marine and I'll be honest, I wasn't a touchy-feely kind of dude. They don't train for that in the military or being a cop.
My wife on the other hand was wired by God a lot different and I didn't know how to be with her emotions, let alone mine.
I started learning things about myself that I didn't even know I needed to learn!
Not only has our marriage been resurected but the relationships with our children has comletely transformed.
This process in working with Mike helped me stay accountble and he encouraged me to go beyond what we could have even thought possible. We learned to embrace change, even though it may have been tough at first, but the rewards are so worth it and caused us to grow in ways I never expected.
Josiah's Story
We had gotten to the point of feeling like we were not right for each other and felt that eventually our differences would completely pull us apart. We felt like we were misunderstood by the other, we were struggling with anxiety and depression, and we were walking on eggshells around each other.
We would consistently say that the reasons we were still together were our children and we knew we didn’t want our children to pay the price of a separation so I jumped in working with Mike and much to our surprise the marriage coaching I received was more for our personal relationship with Christ and working on ourselves and spiritual needs. By working on our relationship with the Lord and healing our individual hearts, our relationship and trust in the Lord improved, our marriage improved and everything else fell into place.
Our sex life improved almost overnight because of our communication and connection outside the bedroom. Our anxiety and depression improved.
Our marriage is the most important relationship we have, and it is now number 1 in our life after God.
We are starting to dream again and feel more comfortable with taking risks. We are more comfortable with each other, and we have learned skills that we will continue to use throughout our marriage.
Kevin's Story
Thank you doesn’t cover what Janelle and Mike have done for our marriage. We are beyond blessed by the two of them. God has provided us both with two friends and mentors that are the “Real Deal”. Jesus is in them and on them in such a powerful way that they can’t help but impact lives all around them.
Our legacy, our family will forever be altered by the commitment you both have in following God’s call on your lives.
The other night we were out to dinner talking about how much our lives have changed and God showed us something about Mike and Janelle’s marriage ministry. You two are the “Tip of a Spear”. Your ministry is so powerful. God is using them for a specific task and a time such as this.
As you know , if you are reading this the enemy wants to wreck homes/marriages. There are not a lot of people out there doing what Mike and Janelle do.
Their ministry strikes people to their core, and this is why God is showing us the tip of the spear. They are taking out the enemy in the process of helping heal marriages. The enemy cannot stand a chance once you learn what they teach. So many people are being set free because of their commitment.
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven't I heard of this before?
You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”
The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.
Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.
What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.
Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through text, email and my private, members only Facebook group.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.
But here’s what makes me different…
I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.
I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.
I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.
I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.
And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.
This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my husband wants help too?
That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.
But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.
And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.
So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.
But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.
This part starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes — absolutely.
This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.
✅ And full access to our private Wise Wives Facebook community — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.
You're never in this alone.
We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.
But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.
If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.
So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”
Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.
And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.
What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?
So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.
The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.
My method is:
? Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.
? Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.
? Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.
? Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).
? Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.
And most importantly?
You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.
We start with you — and let God do the rest.
Will this work for me?
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Absolutely. I have my Flourishing Academy that most of my wives decide to join because they want not only community but they want to ensure they're making the changes they've made stick. You've more than likely been operating a certain way for years and with that, requires retaining your mind to think differently and for many women, they want to continue with the momentum they started. We will discuss individually when we meet with you if this will be the right fit. But just know...there is a TON of support for you moving forward.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach is rooted in the Word of God—because the Bible is the only blueprint that actually works when it comes to building a lasting marriage. Jesus is the source of real transformation. No matter how broken things feel, any marriage can be restored when you choose to lead God’s way. Without Him, you're just relying on willpower to fix something spiritual—and that’s never enough. But with Him? Nothing’s off the table. Restoration is always possible.
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your wife feels distant—emotionally checked out, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel unwanted, frustrated, and stuck. But listen: God sees you. He knows what’s happening behind closed doors, and He’s not leaving you to figure it out alone. A disconnected wife doesn’t mean the marriage is done—it means there’s a gap only God can fill while He works on her heart. This course gives you the tools to stay grounded, lead with strength, and respond in a way that invites restoration—without losing yourself in the process. You don’t need to pressure her, fix her, or force anything. You get to be the man who shifts the atmosphere in your home by walking in step with Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your obedience—even if she’s still distant.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from breakthrough; it puts you in a position where God can move in ways that make no sense on paper. As painful as this season is, it can become holy ground. When a husband fully surrenders to God—regardless of where his wife stands—he becomes a vessel for change, intercession, and leadership. The same God who split seas, raised the dead, and softened the hardest hearts is still at work—and He’s not limited by your address. Your prayers carry weight. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, rooted in Christ, can bear real fruit—even now. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might be the very space where God begins to rewrite your entire story.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard this before?
You might be asking, “Is this actually legit? If real transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard this before?”
Here’s the truth: most men were never taught how to deal with what’s really going on beneath the surface. You might’ve done premarital counseling or picked up some communication tips—but no one prepared you for the war happening inside your own heart and story.
A lot of couples walk into marriage carrying years of baggage, pain, and unresolved wounds. And most churches or even Christian counseling don’t know how to dig that deep.
What makes this different? We don’t just hand you surface-level tools. We bring Jesus into the process—because only He can restore your mind, emotions, and identity from the inside out.
Trying harder isn’t the answer. Going deeper with Him is.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 3 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
All the men I work with are busy career professionals, business owners, dads and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every man.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 1 hour (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through a private WhatsApp group (1 to 1 and group) and email.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I respect counselors and therapists—they have their place.
But here’s what makes this different…
I’m not here to just help you talk it out or circle the same issues week after week. I’m here to help you lead, grow, and take Spirit-led action that actually produces change in your life and marriage.
I’m not going to ask, “How does that make you feel?” and leave it there. You’ll get biblical truth, emotional tools, and real strategies to move forward with strength.
I’m not here to label you—I’m here to remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in that identity as a man, a husband, and a leader.
This isn’t theory for me. I’ve lived it. I’ve walked through lots of dysfunction, a controlling wife, loss of businesses but also restoration— I coach from real experience, not just a textbook.
And the most important part? I don’t just invite you to do the work—I invite the Holy Spirit into it. Because without Him, it’s just behavior management.
This isn’t therapy. This is mentorship. Discipleship. A battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my wife wants help too?
That’s great—and we love when both spouses are open and ready to grow.
But let me shoot it straight:
Don’t wait on her if she’s not ready.
The longer you sit back waiting for her to change, the more ground the enemy gains—stealing your peace, delaying breakthrough, and keeping your home stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen this over and over:
When a man chooses to take the first step—when he decides to rise, lead, and walk in who God created him to be—it shifts the atmosphere in his home.
It softens hearts. It changes dynamics.
And yes, it often sparks something in his wife too.
So if she’s open to help—praise God. My wife, Janelle, is here to walk with her when the time comes.
But your growth doesn’t hinge on her timeline.
This starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes—100%. This isn’t just a course you watch and figure out alone. Here’s what you get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A for 8 weeks — ask real questions, get straight answers, and receive Spirit-led guidance to move forward.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — to help you process what’s heavy, navigate challenges, and get clear direction tailored to your situation.
✅ Full access to our private Husbands of Valor WhatsApp group — a community of solid, faith-driven men walking the same road with you.
You’re not doing this alone. We walk with you—every step—with truth, strategy, prayer, and real brotherhood.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
Great question—and one I hear a lot.
The truth? Every marriage is different, and there’s no perfect timeline.
But here’s what I can tell you: change starts the moment you decide to show up differently. Your mindset, your atmosphere, your heart—it begins to shift the second you take ownership and let God lead.
If you’re committed, willing to put in the work, and open to God’s direction—restoration isn’t just possible… it’s likely.
So instead of asking, “How long will this take?”
Start asking, “Am I ready to take the first step today?”
Because that yes? That’s what opens the door.
And one last thing: I can’t guarantee how your marriage will end—but I can guarantee this: you’ll be able to look in the mirror and lay your head down at night knowing you gave it everything. You showed up. You led. You didn’t quit.
What makes the Husbands of Valor Intensive different from other programs?
Most marriage programs throw communication tips at you or try to help you manage your behavior—but they don’t go deep enough to create lasting change.
Husbands of Valor is different.
This isn’t about "fixing" your marriage. It’s about transforming you from the inside out—so you can lead with strength, clarity, and purpose.
Here’s how we do it:
? Faith-Driven – Everything is grounded in biblical truth, not just theory or pop psychology.
? Emotionally Tactical – We help you take control of your reactions, work through triggers, and stop repeating the same patterns.
? Spirit-Led – It’s not just tools and tactics. We invite the Holy Spirit into the process for real, lasting impact.
?️ Personalized Coaching – You get live group sessions and direct 1-on-1 support to walk through your exact situation.
? Identity-Centered – This isn’t about behavior modification. It’s about becoming the man God designed you to be.
And here’s the key:
You don’t need your wife to be on board first.
We start with you—and let God do what only He can do.
Will this work for me?
Here’s the truth… I don’t know how it will all play out.
Why? Because I don’t know if you’ll show up, do the work, and let God do what only He can do in you.
But here’s what I do know—you won’t be the same man on the other side of this.
And when you change, everything around you starts to shift.
I can’t promise outcomes. This only works if you’re willing to commit, stay the course, and let God lead.
But one thing’s for sure: you can’t keep living like this. Something has to change—and that change starts with you.
Is there ongoing support after the 8 weeks?
Yes, if you and your wife have both completed our 8-week intensives (your wife completed Wise Wives with Janelle) we have our Marriage Mastery 1 year mastermind. It's where you take everything you've gained over the last 8 weeks and now master it. We go deep into every important area of marriage. Marriage isn't a one time fix. This is a journey you should be on for the rest of your life and never stop working on.
Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
The Wise Wives knows the power of her words and can use her tounge build up her husband and the marriage.
The Wise Wives knows how to control her responses.
The Wise Wives knows how to be a friend.
The Wise Wives knows how to support her husband.
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YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
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YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
Ashley's Testimony
"Don’t hesitate… And I’m serious.. Run, don’t walk to sign up for mentorship with Mike and Janelle. They will teach you FOUNDATIONAL concepts that will make your life and marriage better no matter how bad or good you think it is right now."
Erica's Testimony
"We are becoming what we were always meant to be. We are in a place that I never knew we could get to, and it keeps getting better every day."
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.