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Faith-based, Holy Spirit-led mentorship for women who are ready to heal from betrayal, infidelity, lies, or addiction—and rebuild their marriage from the inside out.
3 SHIFTS THAT WISE WIVES ARE USING TO SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE AND LIVE OUT THE BIBLE’S BLUEPRINT FOR IT.
THE WISE WIVES INTENSIVE
Faith-based, Holy Spirit-led mentorship for women who are ready to heal from betrayal, infidelity, lies, or addiction—and rebuild their marriage from the inside out.
MY TRAINING SHOWS EVERY PART OF THE PROGRAM AND WHY IT MATTERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE. NO TIME NOW?...YOU CAN SCROLL BELOW TO SEE WHAT’S INCLUDED AND WATCH IT LATER.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
This is for you if you're not ready to give up
on your marriage and you need healing,
equipping and direction.
MY TRAINING SHOWS EVERY PART OF THE PROGRAM AND WHY IT MATTERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE. NO TIME NOW?...YOU CAN SCROLL BELOW TO SEE WHAT’S INCLUDED AND WATCH IT LATER.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
Here's What to Expect in the Wise Wives Intensive:
Week 1: The Wise Wives Transformation Process
Where the healing begins and clarity replaces chaos.
When your marriage feels broken, the hardest part is knowing where to start. In Week 1, you’ll finally get a clear, biblical plan for what to do first — and the peace that comes from knowing you’re not alone in the process.
You’ll walk away with a renewed sense of hope, direction, and confidence that God can restore your marriage — starting with you.
Here’s what this week unlocks for you:
A Heart Shift That Changes
Everything You’ll discover why your heart posture is the foundation for breakthrough — and experience the freedom that comes when you release control and let God rebuild you from the inside out.
Healing from betrayal, infidelity, broken trust and addictions
You’ll learn how to move from the pain of betrayal, infidelity, broken trust, and addiction into lasting peace, forgiveness, and emotional safety — through the kind of healing only God can bring.
The Biblical Blueprint for Restoration
Instead of reacting in fear or frustration, you’ll gain a step-by-step path that shows you exactly how to walk out healing in your marriage, even if your husband isn’t on board yet.
God’s Strategy for Winning Your Battles
You’ll learn how to fight for your marriage without losing your peace — using spiritual battle strategies that dismantle the enemy’s attacks on your home and heart.
A New Way to PrayYou’ll receive a prayer framework that transforms your quiet time into powerful moments of warfare and healing — so you’re not just praying about your marriage, you’re praying through it.
By the end of Week 1, you’ll no longer feel stuck, confused, or powerless. You’ll feel anchored, equipped, and clear about what to do next — with a sense of holy confidence that God is moving.
Week 2: Forgiveness & Healing
Where pain begins to lose its power.
This is the week where real freedom starts to happen. The walls that once protected your heart start to come down — not to expose your pain, but to finally heal it.
You’ll begin to understand why you and your husband keep repeating the same painful cycles, and how to break them once and for all. God will start healing the wounds beneath the surface — the ones that arguments, silence, or distance could never fix.
Here’s what this week brings to life:
Breaking the Cycles That Keep You Stuck
You’ll uncover the root causes of the dysfunction in your marriage and learn how to replace generational patterns of pain with blessings that flow through your home.
Freedom from Soul Ties That Don’t Belong
You’ll learn how to identify and break unhealthy soul ties that have kept your heart bound to past hurt, fear, or betrayal — and experience what it feels like to be spiritually free again.
Healing from the Inside Out
As you walk through deep inner healing, you’ll confront the emotional and spiritual wounds that have been sabotaging connection — and start to feel peace in places that used to feel impossible.
The Power to Forgive — for Real This Time
Whether you’re facing infidelity, betrayal, addiction, or lies, you’ll discover the two biblical keys that make forgiveness possible — not by forgetting what happened, but by letting God lift the weight you’ve been carrying.
By the end of Week 2, the grip of anger, shame, and fear will start to loosen. You’ll feel lighter, softer, and stronger — not because everything is fixed yet, but because you are finally healing.
Week 3: Your Identity &
Hearing God’s Voice
Where clarity replaces confusion and peace returns to your heart.
This is where everything begins to shift. The fog starts to lift, and you begin hearing God again — not through fear or desperation, but through peace and intimacy.
When you rediscover who you are in Christ, you stop letting your circumstances define you. The shame, guilt, and confusion that once ruled your emotions start to fade, and you begin to stand in confidence, knowing exactly who you are and whose you are.
Here’s what this week awakens in you:
Hearing God with Confidence
You’ll learn how to recognize His voice clearly — even in the middle of chaos — so you can make decisions with peace instead of pressure.
Rediscovering Your True Identity
You’ll break free from the false version of yourself shaped by pain, fear, or rejection and step into the woman God always created you to be — whole, loved, and secure.
Walking in Confidence, Not Confusion
Through a simple 5-step process, you’ll start to live from your true identity daily — responding with grace instead of reacting from insecurity.
Creating a Home Filled with Peace
You’ll learn how to shift the spiritual atmosphere in your home so peace isn’t something you chase, it’s something you carry.
Trusting Again
You’ll master a practical tool that helps you stay emotionally grounded when things get heated — so you can respond with calm strength and help bring stability to your husband and home.
By the end of Week 3, you’ll no longer feel lost or silenced. You’ll feel centered, confident, and connected to God’s voice — ready to lead your heart and your home from a place of peace.
Here's What to Expect in the Wise Wives Intensive:
Here's what you're going to learn inside the Wise Wives Room:
Week 1:
The Wise Wives Transformation Process
Where the healing begins and clarity replaces chaos.
When your marriage feels broken, the hardest part is knowing where to start. In Week 1, you’ll finally get a clear, biblical plan for what to do first — and the peace that comes from knowing you’re not alone in the process.
You’ll walk away with a renewed sense of hope, direction, and confidence that God can restore your marriage — starting with you.
Here’s what this week unlocks for you:
A Hear Shift That Changes Everything
You’ll discover why your heart posture is the foundation for breakthrough — and experience the freedom that comes when you release control and let God rebuild you from the inside out.
Healing from betrayal, infidelity, broken trust and addictions
You’ll learn how to move from the pain of betrayal, infidelity, broken trust, and addiction into lasting peace, forgiveness, and emotional safety — through the kind of healing only God can bring.
The Biblical Blueprint for Restoration
Instead of reacting in fear or frustration, you’ll gain a step-by-step path that shows you exactly how to walk out healing in your marriage, even if your husband isn’t on board yet.
God’s Strategy for Winning Your Battles
You’ll learn how to fight for your marriage without losing your peace — using spiritual battle strategies that dismantle the enemy’s attacks on your home and heart.
Praying With Power
You’ll receive a prayer framework that transforms your quiet time into powerful moments of warfare and healing — so you’re not just praying about your marriage, you’re praying through it.
By the end of Week 1, you’ll no longer feel stuck, confused, or powerless. You’ll feel anchored, equipped, and clear about what to do next — with a sense of holy confidence that God is already moving.
Week 2:
Forgivness & Healing
Where pain begins to lose its power.
This is the week where real freedom starts to happen. The walls that once protected your heart start to come down — not to expose your pain, but to finally heal it.
You’ll begin to understand why you and your husband keep repeating the same painful cycles, and how to break them once and for all. God will start healing the wounds beneath the surface — the ones that arguments, silence, or distance could never fix.
Here’s what this week brings to life:
Breaking the Cycles That Keep You Stuck
You’ll uncover the root causes of the dysfunction in your marriage and learn how to replace generational patterns of pain with blessings that flow through your home.
Freedom from Soul Ties That Don’t Belong
You’ll learn how to identify and break unhealthy soul ties that have kept your heart bound to past hurt, fear, or betrayal — and experience what it feels like to be spiritually free again.
Healing from the Inside Out
As you walk through deep inner healing, you’ll confront the emotional and spiritual wounds that have been sabotaging connection — and start to feel peace in places that used to feel impossible.
The Power to Forgive — for Real This Time
Whether you’re facing infidelity, betrayal, addiction, or lies, you’ll discover the two biblical keys that make forgiveness possible — not by forgetting what happened, but by letting God lift the weight you’ve been carrying.
By the end of Week 2, the grip of anger, shame, and fear will start to loosen. You’ll feel lighter, softer, and stronger — not because everything is fixed yet, but because you are finally healing.
Week 3:
Your Identity &
Hearing God's Voice
Where clarity replaces confusion and peace returns to your heart
This is where everything begins to shift. The fog starts to lift, and you begin hearing God again — not through fear or desperation, but through peace and intimacy.
When you rediscover who you are in Christ, you stop letting your circumstances define you. The shame, guilt, and confusion that once ruled your emotions start to fade, and you begin to stand in confidence, knowing exactly who you are and whose you are.
Here’s what this week awakens in you:
Hearing God with Confidence
You’ll begin to recognize His voice clearly — even in the middle of chaos — so you can make decisions with peace instead of pressure.
Rediscovering Your True Identity
You’ll break free from the false version of yourself shaped by pain, fear, or rejection and step into the woman God always created you to be — whole, loved, and secure.
Walking in Confidence, Not Confusion
Through a simple 5-step process, you’ll start to live from your true identity daily — responding with grace instead of reacting from insecurity.
Creating a Home Filled with Peace
You’ll begin to shift the spiritual atmosphere in your home so peace isn’t something you chase, it’s something you carry.
Trust Again
You’ll master a practical tool that helps you stay emotionally grounded when things get heated — so you can respond with calm strength and help bring stability to your husband and home.
By the end of Week 3, you’ll no longer feel lost or silenced. You’ll feel centered, confident, and connected to God’s voice — ready to lead your heart and your home from a place of peace.
Week 4: Restoring Connection.
Communication begins to heal and honor is rebuilt
This is the week where you start to see the fruit of all the heart work. The atmosphere in your home begins to shift. You’re calmer. He notices something different. You’re no longer reacting from pain — you’re responding from peace.
You’ll learn how to rebuild emotional connection and respect with your husband, even if he feels distant, closed off, or says he doesn’t love you anymore.
Here’s what this week restores in you:
Anchors That Keep You Steady
You’ll discover five powerful anchors that ground you in faith and emotional strength — so when the storms hit, you stay centered, not shaken.
Trusting God’s Process
You’ll learn what it really means to walk by faith when it feels like nothing is changing — and experience how trusting God’s timing brings peace that striving never could.
Words That Heal, Not Hurt
You’ll master how to communicate with your husband in a way that invites him closer instead of pushing him away — using language that calms conflict and opens hearts.
Rebuilding Honor and Respect
You’ll receive a simple but powerful tool to restore honor in your marriage — even if love feels lost. As you shift your posture, you’ll begin to win his heart through quiet strength and godly respect.
By the end of Week 4, you’ll see new signs of life in your marriage — softer conversations, lighter tension, and a deeper peace within yourself. Connection begins where control ends, and this week, you’ll finally feel that truth come alive.
Week 4:
Restoring Connection
Where communication begins to heal and honor is rebuilt
This is the week where you start to see the fruit of all the heart work. The atmosphere in your home begins to shift. You’re calmer. He notices something different. You’re no longer reacting from pain — you’re responding from peace.
You’ll learn how to rebuild emotional connection and respect with your husband, even if he feels distant, closed off, or says he doesn’t love you anymore.
Here’s what this week restores in you:
Anchors That Keep You Steady
You’ll discover five powerful anchors that ground you in faith and emotional strength — so when the storms hit, you stay centered, not shaken.
Trusting God’s Process
You’ll start to walk by faith when it feels like nothing is changing — and experience how trusting God’s timing brings peace that striving never could.
Words That Heal, Not Hurt
You’ll master how to communicate with your husband in a way that invites him closer instead of pushing him away — using language that calms conflict and opens hearts.
Rebuilding Honor and Respect
You’ll receive a simple but powerful tool to restore honor in your marriage — even if love feels lost. As you shift your posture, you’ll begin to win his heart through quiet strength and godly respect.
By the end of Week 4, you’ll see new signs of life in your marriage — softer conversations, lighter tension, and a deeper peace within yourself. Connection begins where control ends, and this week, you’ll finally feel that truth come alive.
Week 5: Surrendering.
Where you stop striving and start living in peace
This week is all about letting go — not giving up, but handing your marriage back to the One who can actually restore it. You’ll stop exhausting yourself trying to change him, and instead, experience the freedom that comes when you finally trust God to do what only He can do.
Here’s what this week releases in you:
What would your 'dream marriage' look like?
The Power of True Surrender
You’ll discover what it really means to “let go and let God” — not in theory, but in practice — so you can stop carrying the weight of trying to fix everything yourself.
Rewriting Your Story with God
You’ll learn how to move past the pain and start seeing your marriage through the lens of redemption, creating a new vision for your future rooted in faith, not fear.
Walking as God’s Masterpiece
You’ll step into four biblical principles that help you carry yourself with dignity, grace, and quiet strength — reflecting who you are in Christ, not what you’ve been through.
Renewing Your Mind, Restoring Your Peace
You’ll learn how to replace destructive thoughts with truth, breaking free from fear, anxiety, shame, and guilt — and finally feel peace settle deep into your soul.
Rising Above What’s Been Holding You Down
With both practical and spiritual tools, you’ll overcome the battles in your heart and mind so you can walk in peace, confidence, and purpose again.
By the end of Week 5, you’ll no longer feel weighed down by what’s gone wrong — you’ll feel lifted by what God is making right. This is the week you exhale, surrender, and step into freedom.
Week 6: Seeing Through God’s Eyes
Where perspective changes and love begins to flow again
This week is all about vision — not with your natural eyes, but your spiritual ones. When you start seeing your husband the way God does, everything changes. The anger softens. The pressure lifts. And compassion starts to replace the constant disappointment.
You’ll discover what it truly means for Jesus to be your first love and how that revelation reshapes the way you love, lead, and respond inside your marriage.
Here’s what this week opens your eyes to:
Jesus as Your First Husband
You’ll experience what it really means to let Christ be the center of your heart and home — so your peace and joy no longer rise and fall with your husband’s actions.
Releasing Unrealistic Expectations
You’ll learn how to let go of the pressure for him to “get it right” and start understanding his perspective through grace, not frustration.
Seeing Through God’s Eyes
You’ll discover how to awaken your spiritual vision and see your husband as God sees him — not as who he’s been, but as who he’s becoming.
Rebuilding Trust, One Drop at a Time
You’ll be guided through the slow, sacred process of rebuilding trust after betrayal or broken promises — learning how to stay open without staying vulnerable to more pain.
Creating Spiritual Intimacy That Lasts
Even if your husband isn’t spiritually engaged yet, you’ll learn the four key strategies Mike and I used to grow together in faith — so your marriage can become anchored in Jesus, not emotions.
By the end of Week 6, you’ll see your husband and your marriage through a whole new lens. Instead of focusing on what’s missing, you’ll see what God is building. And that shift changes everything.
It’s time to take a stand, reclaim your voice and initiate the changes you want to see in your marriage today.
Week 7: Producing a True Heart Change in Your Husband
Where love begins to flow both ways again
By this point, you’ve healed, surrendered, and learned to see your marriage through God’s eyes. Now it’s time to see transformation take root in your husband’s heart. This is where walls begin to fall, communication opens up, and connection deepens — not because you forced it, but because God softened it.
Here’s what this week cultivates in your marriage:
Celebrating the Differences
You’ll gain a fresh understanding of the unique way God designed men and women — learning how to honor your differences instead of resenting them, and how to use them to strengthen your marriage.
How True Heart Change Happens
You’ll discover the biblical principles that draw your husband’s heart back to you — not through control or convincing, but through the quiet influence of a transformed wife whose strength is rooted in peace.
Restoring Affection and Intimacy
You’ll receive practical and spiritual tools for rekindling emotional and physical closeness — restoring safety, desire, and tenderness in the areas that once felt disconnected or cold.
Mastering Connection Through Communication
You’ll be communicating in ways that reach his heart — using language that helps him truly see you, hear you, and want to draw closer.
By the end of Week 7, you’ll see your husband beginning to respond differently — softer tone, longer talks, deeper connection. You’ll realize that true influence doesn’t come from trying harder, but from letting God lead through you.
Where communication begins to heal and honor is rebuilt
This is the week where you start to see the fruit of all the heart work. The atmosphere in your home begins to shift. You’re calmer. He notices something different. You’re no longer reacting from pain — you’re responding from peace.
You’ll learn how to rebuild emotional connection and respect with your husband, even if he feels distant, closed off, or says he doesn’t love you anymore.
Here’s what this week restores in you:
The Power of True Surrender
You’ll discover what it really means to “let go and let God” — not in theory, but in practice — so you can stop carrying the weight of trying to fix everything yourself.
Rewriting Your Story with God
You’ll start seeing your marriage through the lens of redemption, creating a new vision for your future rooted in faith, not fear.
Walking as God’s Masterpiece
You’ll step into four biblical principles that help you carry yourself with dignity, grace, and quiet strength — reflecting who you are in Christ, not what you’ve been through.
Renewing Your Mind, Restoring Your Peace
You’ll replace destructive thoughts with truth, breaking free from fear, anxiety, shame, and guilt — and finally feel peace settle deep into your soul.
Rising Above What’s Been Holding You Down
With both practical and spiritual tools, you’ll overcome the battles in your heart and mind so you can walk in peace, confidence, and purpose again.
By the end of Week 5, you’ll no longer feel weighed down by what’s gone wrong — you’ll feel lifted by what God is making right. This is the week you exhale, surrender, and step into freedom.
Week 6:
Seeing through God's Eyes
Where perspective changes and love begins to flow again
This week is all about vision — not with your natural eyes, but your spiritual ones. When you start seeing your husband the way God does, everything changes. The anger softens. The pressure lifts. And compassion starts to replace the constant disappointment.
You’ll discover what it truly means for Jesus to be your first love and how that revelation reshapes the way you love, lead, and respond inside your marriage.
Here’s what this week opens your eyes to:
Jesus as Your First Husband
You’ll experience what it really means to let Christ be the center of your heart and home — so your peace and joy no longer rise and fall with your husband’s actions.
Releasing Unrealistic Expectations
You’ll beging to let go of the pressure for him to “get it right” and start understanding his perspective through grace, not frustration.
Seeing Through God’s Eyes
You’ll start to awaken your spiritual vision and see your husband as God sees him — not as who he’s been, but as who he’s becoming.
Rebuilding Trust, One Drop at a Time
You’ll be guided through the slow, sacred process of rebuilding trust after betrayal or broken promises — learning how to stay open without staying vulnerable to more pain.
Creating Spiritual Intimacy That Lasts
Even if your husband isn’t spiritually engaged yet, you’ll learn the four key strategies Mike and I used to grow together in faith — so your marriage can become anchored in Jesus, not emotions.
By the end of Week 6, you’ll see your husband — and your marriage — through a whole new lens. Instead of focusing on what’s missing, you’ll see what God is building. And that shift changes everything.
Week 7:
Producing a True Heart Change In Your Husband
Where love begins to flow both ways again
By this point, you’ve healed, surrendered, and learned to see your marriage through God’s eyes. Now it’s time to see transformation take root in your husband’s heart. This is where walls begin to fall, communication opens up, and connection deepens — not because you forced it, but because God softened it.
Here’s what this week cultivates in your marriage:
Celebrating the Differences
You’ll gain a fresh understanding of the unique way God designed men and women — learning how to honor your differences instead of resenting them, and how to use them to strengthen your marriage.
How True Heart Change Happens
You’ll start walking in the biblical principles that draw your husband’s heart back to you — not through control or convincing, but through the quiet influence of a transformed wife whose strength is rooted in peace.
Restoring Affection and Intimacy
You’ll receive practical and spiritual tools for rekindling emotional and physical closeness — restoring safety, desire, and tenderness in the areas that once felt disconnected or cold.
Mastering Connection Through Communication
You’ll be communicating in ways that reach his heart — using language that helps him truly see you, hear you, and want to draw closer.
By the end of Week 7, you’ll see your husband beginning to respond differently — softer tone, longer talks, deeper connection. You’ll realize that true influence doesn’t come from trying harder, but from letting God lead through you.
Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
Where transformation turns into a new way of living
This week is about building a marriage that lasts — not by striving, but by walking in wisdom, joy, and partnership with God. You’ll learn how to protect the peace and connection you’ve fought so hard for, so your home becomes a place of love, laughter, and unity again.
Here’s what this week establishes in you:
Words That Build, Not Break
You’ll learn how to use your words as a weapon of life — speaking with grace, wisdom, and authority led by the Holy Spirit instead of emotion.
Owning Your Response
You’ll discover how your response is your greatest power. When you learn to stay steady no matter what he says or does, you create an atmosphere where trust and safety can grow.
Becoming His Friend Again
You’ll rekindle the friendship that once made your marriage fun — learning how to laugh, connect, and enjoy each other again, no matter what season you’re in.
Walking Out Your Shared Mission
You’ll learn how to support your husband from a place of strength, not striving — discovering what it means to walk side by side in purpose and calling as a unified team.
By the end of Week 8, you’ll look back and see the transformation — not just in your marriage, but in you. You’ll have the tools, peace, and spiritual maturity to keep growing together, building a marriage that reflects the heart of God.
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Weekly, live 2 hour Q&A coaching Zooms every Friday at 10am PST to ask me and my team any questions during our 8 weeks together. If you can't hop on for whatever reason, no worries, they're all recorded!
Three private 1-on-1 (60 min) coaching sessions with one of my coaches — You’ll have personal support and guidance at the beginning, middle, and end of your journey. Scheduling these is flexible.
Self-paced, power packed video modules. Each week you will get new videos filled with real strategies, Biblical truth, and tools that I personally recorded so you can immediately shifting the atmosphere in your heart and home. It's about 2 hours of videos per week that will show you where to start and how to do everything I'm training you on.
8 weeks of access to our private, members only Wise Wives Facebook group. This is a safe, supportive space where you can ask questions, get encouragement, and receive prayer from me and our team.
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Ashley's Story
"I found Janelle when I was at one of my lowest points in life. I found out in April 2021 that my husband has been unfaithful about 6 months after we got married back in 2018.. at this point we had a 1 year old daughter, I was heart broken and devastated to say the least..."
Erica's Story
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing
another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me
gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Steffi's Story
'"My husband is not a believer (yet) and I came to a place in my marriage after only 3 weeks where I realized I needed to find my security and acceptance from God first, not from my husband. And what's crazy cool is that when I changed and I took the pressure off my husband to prove his love for me. It shifted everything and now he's become more loving to me...without me even asking!"
Daphne's Story
What Janelle showed me was that there was a missing piece in my marriage and that missing piece was Jesus.
Although we attended church every Sunday as a married couple, there was no real basis and foundation for our marriage. I needed someone to show us the right way. I began to pray for my husband, and he began to change his behavior.
I dedicated myself to the process, and I rededicated my life to Christ. I began to see the change take place. This process helped change the trajectory of my marriage. My husband and I are no longer “enemies” by the grace of God. As a matter of fact, we are becoming all God has planned for us to be!
Lauren's Story
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
Words can’t describe what working with Marriage Ignite did for me personally. I feel like a new person after this process.
Kara's Story
The healing and breakthrough I've experienced has been life changing for a better future not just for me but my marriage. I learned to look at my husband thru God's eyes, where I see flaws in him God has showed me, he sees beauty.
I learned to hear God's voice and seek his wisdom and understanding in all things. Without God I am incapable of loving my husband the way he deserves to be loved.
I'm so grateful and blessed that God brought Mike and Janelle onto my life and cannot wait to see what the future holds for me in my Christ given identity and purpose and for my marriage to be God centered and flourishing in Unity and Love.
Carmen's Story
After 8 long months of separation, I am so thankful to say my marriage is being restored. He has moved back in, and we are creating a new marriage. We do not want the old marriage. It’s dead. A new marriage is being restored.
During the end of the separation, even though still believing for the miracle, I had peace in my life for the first time in a long time. It was like once I totally surrendered my husband to God, things started changing. It’s been a miracle!
All the things I was praying for is coming to pass. God is so good. He hates divorce. The devil is a liar and has no power over your marriage. Take action today!
Mardee's Story
I experienced countless encounters with God during my time with Janelle and the biggest one was I do not need to use my voice anymore to force an outcome, but allow God to open the doors.
When I finally surrendered my agenda and allowed God to lead, there was a shift in my daily walk which created a shift in my marriage and family. The shift created a PEACE within. The coaching I received from Janelle was all from the Holy Spirit.
He led her and she was so gentle, and she prays with you and her prayers are healing. My story is now as a Godly wife I see it is possible through God nothing is impossible. Luke 1:37. My job is to allow God to work through me and allow God to work through my husband. God does not need me to do His job. He has it all in His hands. I trust Him wholeheartedly
Lisa's Story
My life is truly changed!!! My husband is in Love with me again!!!
Thank you for being obedience. I've cried and cried and cried!!! I’ve heard all of this before. But your love for Yeshua truly comes through your work making the transition from our head knowledge to heart knowledge.
My husband loves my true identity. I am not an angry control freak anymore!!! Lol
I am wise wife who honors and respects her husband.
He wants to be around me, he wants to talk to me, he wants to touch me and kiss me he wants to have sex with the woman that he loves, and he is safe with.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard this before?
You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”
The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.
Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.
What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.
Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through text, email and my private, members only Facebook group.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.
But here’s what makes me different…
I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.
I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.
I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.
I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.
And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.
This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my husband wants help too?
That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.
But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.
And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.
So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.
But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.
This part starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes — absolutely.
This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.
✅ And full access to our private Wise Wives Facebook community — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.
You're never in this alone.
We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.
But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.
If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.
So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”
Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.
And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.
What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?
So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.
The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.
My method is:
Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.
Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.
Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.
Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).
Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.
And most importantly?
You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.
We start with you — and let God do the rest.
Will this work for me?
Here’s the truth… I don’t know.
Truly, because I don’t know if you’ll do the work, and allow God to do the work within you.
But here’s what I do know…you will be a different person on the other side of everything we will do together.
And when you change, everything around you changes.
I can’t make any promises because ALL of this will be up to your efforts and your commitment to seeing this through.
And what I also know is that you can’t keep living like this and something needs to radically change.
And that change has to begin with you.
Is there ongoing support after the 8 weeks?
YES! We offer a month to month academy called Flourish. It's designed to help you walk out your calling as a women, called by God to lead in every are of your life.
How is The Wise Wives Intensive different then The Unwavering Wife Course?
The Unwavering Wife course is a self-paced program with pre-recorded video lessons and practical tools you can start anytime, while the Wise Wives Intensive includes getting coached by Janelle and her team, different videos you watch weekly, weekly group coaching Zooms, one-on-one support, and personalized guidance to help you with your specific needs in your marriage.
Week 8:
Creating Lasting Change
Where transformation turns into a new way of living
This week is about building a marriage that lasts — not by striving, but by walking in wisdom, joy, and partnership with God. You’ll learn how to protect the peace and connection you’ve fought so hard for, so your home becomes a place of love, laughter, and unity again.
Here’s what this week establishes in you:
Words That Build, Not Break
You’ll learn how to use your words as a weapon of life — speaking with grace, wisdom, and authority led by the Holy Spirit instead of emotion.
Owning Your Response
You’ll discover how your response is your greatest power and become the wife that's steady no matter what he says or does and you'll create an atmosphere where trust and safety can grow.
Becoming His Friend Again
You’ll rekindle the friendship that once made your marriage fun — learning how to laugh, connect, and enjoy each other again, no matter what season you’re in.
Walking Out Your Shared Mission
You’ll know exactly how to support your husband from a place of strength, not striving — discovering what it means to walk side by side in purpose and calling as a unified team.
By the end of Week 8, you’ll look back and see the transformation — not just in your marriage, but in you. You’ll have the tools, peace, and spiritual maturity to keep growing together, building a marriage that reflects the heart of God.
HOW DOES THIS ALL WORK?
STRUCTURE? EXPECTATIONS? WORKLOAD?
LET'S PUT THIS ALL TOGETHER...
When you decide to start, you begin immediately so you can begin the healing process today.
GETTING STARTED
Option 1:
Single Pay
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YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
Option 2:
Split Pay
(2 payments)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
OK...BUT WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
My intensive is designed for these 3 types of situations. If you’ve had any of these thoughts, this will absolutely help you.
What my students are saying...
Ashley's Testimony
"I found Janelle when I was at one of my lowest points in life. I found out in April 2021 that my husband has been unfaithful about 6 months after we got married back in 2018.. at this point we had a 1 year old daughter, I was heart broken and devastated to say the least..."
Steffi's Testimony
"My husband is not a believer (yet) and I came to a place in my marriage after only 3 weeks where I realized I needed to find my security and acceptance from God first, not from my husband. And what's crazy cool is that when I changed and I took the pressure off my husband to prove his love for me. It shifted everything and now he's become more loving to me...without me even asking!"
Erica's Testimony
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Daphne's Story
What Janelle showed me was that there was a missing piece in my marriage and that missing piece was Jesus.
Although we attended church every Sunday as a married couple, there was no real basis and foundation for our marriage. I needed someone to show us the right way. I began to pray for my husband, and he began to change his behavior.
I dedicated myself to the process, and I rededicated my life to Christ. I began to see the change take place. This process helped change the trajectory of my marriage. My husband and I are no longer “enemies” by the grace of God. As a matter of fact, we are becoming all God has planned for us to be!
Lauren's Story
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
Words can’t describe what working with Marriage Ignite did for me personally. I feel like a new person after this process.
Lisa's Story
My life is truly changed!!! My husband is in Love with me again!!!
Thank you for being obedience. I've cried and cried and cried!!! I’ve heard all of this before. But your love for Yeshua truly comes through your work making the transition from our head knowledge to heart knowledge.
My husband loves my true identity. I am not an angry control freak anymore!!! Lol
I am wise wife who honors and respects her husband.
He wants to be around me, he wants to talk to me, he wants to touch me and kiss me he wants to have sex with the woman that he loves, and he is safe with.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven't I heard of this before?
You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”
The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.
Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.
What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.
Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through text, email and my private, members only Facebook group.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.
But here’s what makes me different…
I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.
I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.
I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.
I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.
And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.
This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my husband wants help too?
That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.
But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.
And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.
So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.
But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.
This part starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes — absolutely.
This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.
✅ And full access to our private Wise Wives Facebook community — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.
You're never in this alone.
We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.
But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.
If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.
So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”
Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.
And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.
What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?
So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.
The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.
My method is:
? Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.
? Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.
? Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.
? Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).
? Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.
And most importantly?
You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.
We start with you — and let God do the rest.
Will this work for me?
Here’s the truth… I don’t know how it will all play out.
Why? Because I don’t know if you’ll show up, do the work, and let God do what only He can do in you.
But here’s what I do know—you won’t be the same wife on the other side of this.
And when you change, everything around you starts to shift.
I can’t promise outcomes. This only works if you’re willing to commit, stay the course, and let God lead.
But one thing’s for sure: you can’t keep living like this. Something has to change—and that change starts with you.
Is there ongoing support after the initial 8 weeks?
Absolutely. I have my Flourish Academy that most of my wives decide to join because they want not only community but they want to ensure they're making the changes they've made stick. You've more than likely been operating a certain way for years and with that, requires retaining your mind to think differently and for many women, they want to continue with the momentum they started. We will discuss individually when we meet with you if this will be the right fit. But just know...there is a TON of support for you moving forward.
How is the Wise Wives Intensive different then The Unwavering Wife course?
The Unwavering Wife course is a self-paced course with pre-recorded video lessons and practical tools you can start anytime, while the Wise Wives Intensive includes getting coached by Janelle and her team, different videos you watch weekly, weekly group coaching Zooms, one-on-one support, and personalized guidance to help you with your specific needs in your marriage.
Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
The Wise Wives knows the power of her words and can use her tounge build up her husband and the marriage.
The Wise Wives knows how to control her responses.
The Wise Wives knows how to be a friend.
The Wise Wives knows how to support her husband.
GETTING STARTED
Single Pay (save more!)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
Split Pay (2 payments)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
Ashley's Testimony
"Don’t hesitate… And I’m serious.. Run, don’t walk to sign up for mentorship with Mike and Janelle. They will teach you FOUNDATIONAL concepts that will make your life and marriage better no matter how bad or good you think it is right now."
Erica's Testimony
"We are becoming what we were always meant to be. We are in a place that I never knew we could get to, and it keeps getting better every day."
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.