THE 3 SHIFTS THAT WISE WIVES ARE USING TO SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE AND LIVE OUT THE BIBLE’S BLUEPRINT FOR IT.
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3 SHIFTS THAT WISE WIVES ARE USING TO SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE AND LIVE OUT THE BIBLE’S BLUEPRINT FOR IT.
3 SHIFTS THAT WISE WIVES ARE USING TO SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE AND LIVE OUT THE BIBLE’S BLUEPRINT FOR IT.
Even if your husband has checked out...
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I started applying 3 critical shifts and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into the woman and wife God was calling me to be.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
This is for you if you're not ready to give up
on your marriage and you need healing,
equipping and direction.
WATCH MY TRAINING AND SEE EVERYTHIG YOU'LL GET (DOWN BELOW) TO SUPPORT YOU IN YOUR MARRIGE AND HEALING JOURNEY.
I started applying 3 critical shifts—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a woman and a wife.
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I started applying 3 critical shifts—the same ones I teach in my training—and they didn’t just help save our marriage…they helped me step into who God was calling me to be as a wife.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
But eventually, I found someone who helped me do it God’s way.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
How our story began...
In 2005, I was sitting in my office chair in our tiny apartment when Mike and I got into yet another fight.
And out of nowhere—I snapped.
I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and through the tears I remember whispering:
“Something is wrong with me. I need help.”
That moment was the beginning.
The beginning of realizing my emotions were running wild.
The beginning of healing our broken relationship.
The beginning of a very messy, very painful journey.
I didn’t get it right for a long time. I tried everything my way first—and it only made things worse.
That breakdown became the doorway to a breakthrough I didn’t even know I needed.
And maybe… you’re here because something inside you feels the same.
You’re tired of blowing up or shutting down.
Tired of the same arguments.
Tired of feeling like your emotions are hijacking your peace, your marriage, and your walk with God.
You’re not alone.
And you're not crazy.
There’s healing for this.
Here's what you're going to get inside the Wise Wives Room:
Week 1: The Wise Wives Transformation Process.
You’ll get access to the Wise Wives Biblical Blueprint – practical, faith-filled steps to bring healing and restoration to your marriage. We give you a clear plan for where to begin. This is huge because when everything feels broken, it’s overwhelming. You’re left wondering, “Where do I even start?” This blueprint takes away the guesswork and shows you the path forward.
5 reasons your heart posture must change before you can truly begin your healing journey.
The 7 biblical principles for rebuilding your marriage on your own – and how to walk them out.
The 6 battle strategies you need to fight for your marriage – and fight God’s way.
The Armor of Light – what it is and how to use it to protect your marriage and children.
How to pray and finally win the battles raging inside your heart and mind. With a prayer guide that will radically change the way you pray.
Week 2: Healing & Forgiveness.
We Get to the Root of Issues. Right now, you’re stuck in cycles of dysfunction — repeating the same arguments, the same reactions, the same pain. And you keep hurting each other over and over again.
The 3 major roadblocks keeping you stuck and stopping your healing journey.
How to break cycles of dysfunction and generational curses in your marriage – and call in generational blessings instead.
Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, and how to break off the ones keeping you and your marriage bound.
Forgiveness isn’t easy – whether it’s forgiving him or yourself. We’ll show you exactly how to take the first step.
Discover the two powerful keys that make true forgiveness possible – even when it feels impossible right now. Whether you’re facing infidelity, betrayal, alcoholism, pornography, lies, or deep wounds that feel unforgivable… these keys will open the door to freedom and healing.
Week 3: Your Identity &
Hearing God's Voice.
How to hear God’s voice. If you’re not hearing Him, how can you know His will for your life and marriage.
Discover your true, God-given identity – no longer living in fear, shame, or the past.
The 5-step process to walk confidently in your identity and truly know who you are.
How to create a home filled with peace, no matter what’s going on around you.
Learn how to use the Trust Tool to stay in control of your emotions and help calm his.
Here's what you're going to get inside the Wise Wives Room:
Here's what you're going to learn inside the Wise Wives Room:
Week 1: Posturing Your Heart.
You’ll get access to the Wise Wives Biblical Blueprint – practical, faith-filled steps to bring healing and restoration to your marriage. We give you a clear plan for where to begin. This is huge because when everything feels broken, it’s overwhelming. You’re left wondering, “Where do I even start?” This blueprint takes away the guesswork and shows you the path forward.
5 Reasons your heart posture must change before you can truly begin your healing journey.
The 7 biblical principles for rebuilding your marriage on your own – and how to walk them out.
The 6 battle strategies you need to fight for your marriage – and fight God’s way.
The Armor of Light – what it is and how to use it to protect your marriage and children.
How to pray and finally win the battles raging inside your heart and mind. With a prayer guide that will radically change the way you pray.
Week 2: Forgivness & Healing.
We Get to the Root of Issues. Right now, you’re stuck in cycles of dysfunction — repeating the same arguments, the same reactions, the same pain. And you keep hurting each other over and over again.
The 3 major roadblocks keeping you stuck and stopping your healing journey.
How to break cycles of dysfunction and generational curses in your marriage – and call in generational blessings instead.
Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, and how to break off the ones keeping you and your marriage bound.
Forgiveness isn’t easy – whether it’s forgiving him or yourself. We’ll show you exactly how to take the first step.
Discover the two powerful keys that make true forgiveness possible – even when it feels impossible right now. Whether you’re facing infidelity, betrayal, alcoholism, pornography, lies, or deep wounds that feel unforgivable… these keys will open the door to freedom and healing.
Week 3: Your Identity &
Hearing God's Voice.
How to hear God’s voice. If you’re not hearing Him, how can you know His will for your life and marriage.
Discover your true, God-given identity – no longer living in fear, shame, or the past.
The 5-step process to walk confidently in your identity and truly know who you are.
How to create a home filled with peace, no matter what’s going on around you.
Learn how to use the Trust Tool to stay in control of your emotions and help calm his.
Week 4: Restoring Connection.
The 5 essential anchors to keep you steady and unshakable on your journey.
How to trust God’s process, even when it’s hard and how faith pleases God.
Words that work with your husband to communicate and work through conflict.
The essential tool you need to rebuild honor and respect with your husband and win him over even if he says he doesnt love you anymore.
Week 4: Restoring Connection.
The 5 essential anchors to keep you steady and unshakable on your journey.
How to trust God’s process, even when it’s hard and how faith pleases God.
Words that work with your husband to communicate and work through conflict.
The essential tool you need to rebuild honor and respect with your husband and win him over even if he says he doesn't love you anymore.
Week 5: Surrendering.
The secret on how to really surrender and let go and let God change your husband.
When there is so much pain how to re-write your story and create a new vision for your marriage.
4 principles of carry yourself as God's masterpiece.
How to renew your mind and rewire your thoughts.
Break free from fear, depression, anxiety, guilt, and shame, etc. Learn how to overcome the battles in your mind and heart so you can walk in peace, confidence, and purpose again. Discover the practical and spiritual steps to finally rise above what’s been holding you down.
What would your 'dream marriage' look like?
Week 6: Seeing through God's Eyes.
Exactly what it really means for Jesus to be your first husband and how it transforms your marriage.
Learn to let go of high expectations and gain a deeper understanding of your husband’s perspective.
The secret on how to awaken your spiritual eyes and see your husband through God's eyes.
How to rebuild trust when its been broken. Trust is lost in buckets and rebuilt in drops – learn how to start rebuilding today.
You’ll discover how to build spiritual intimacy with your husband—even if he’s not ready yet. I’ll walk you through the 4 key strategies I used with Mike to grow spiritually together, so you can create a marriage anchored in Jesus—where God leads your home, not your emotions.
It’s time to take a stand, reclaim your voice and initiate the changes you want to see in your marriage today.
Week 7: Producing a True Heart Change in Your Husband.
Understanding and embracing the beautiful differences between you and your husband – just as God designed.
How to produce a true heart change in your husband and win his heart back.
Tools on how to restore healthy sex, affection and intimacy.
How to master communication with him in a way he'll hear you , see you and want to go deeper in conversations.
Week 5: Surrendering.
The secret on how to really surrender and let go and let God change your husband.
When there is so much pain how to re-write your story and create a new vision for your marriage.
4 principles of carry yourself as God's masterpiece.
How to renew your mind and rewire your thoughts.
Week 6: Seeing through God's Eyes.
Learn to let go of high expectations and gain a deeper understanding of your husband’s perspective.
The secret on how to awaken your spiritual eyes and see your husband through God's eyes.
How to rebuild trust when its been broken. Trust is lost in buckets and rebuilt in drops – learn how to start rebuilding today.
Exactly what it really means for Jesus to be your first husband and how it transforms your marriage.
You’ll discover how to build spiritual intimacy with your husband—even if he’s not ready yet. I’ll walk you through the 4 key strategies I used with Mike to grow spiritually together, so you can create a marriage anchored in Jesus—where God leads your home, not your emotions.
Week 7: Producing a True Heart Change in Your Husband.
Understanding and embracing the beautiful differences between you and your husband – just as God designed.
How to produce a true heart change in your husband.
Tools on how to restore healthy sex, affection and intimacy.
How to master communication with him in a way he'll hear you.
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Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
How your words become a weapon of life, not destruction. Let your tongue be led by the Spirit, not your flesh.
Your response is your responsibility – and how that empowers you.
How to build a friendship and have fun again. Get your best friend back.
What you need to have in place to support your husband and walk out your mission as a couple.
HOW DOES THIS ALL WORK?
STRUCTURE? EXPECTATIONS? WORKLOAD?
LET'S PUT THIS ALL TOGETHER...
When you decide to start, you begin immediately so you can begin the healing process today.
Weekly, live 2 hour Q&A coaching Zooms every Friday at 10am PST to ask me and my team any questions during our 8 weeks together. If you can't hop on for whatever reason, no worries, they're all recorded!
Three private 1-on-1 (60 min) coaching sessions with one of my coaches — You’ll have personal support and guidance at the beginning, middle, and end of your journey. Scheduling these is flexible.
Self-paced, power packed video modules. Each week you will get new videos filled with real strategies, Biblical truth, and tools that I personally recorded so you can immediately shifting the atmosphere in your heart and home. It's about 2 hours of videos per week that will show you where to start and how to do everything I'm training you on.
8 weeks of access to our private, members only Wise Wives Facebook group. This is a safe, supportive space where you can ask questions, get encouragement, and receive prayer from me and our team.
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What my students are saying...
Ashley's Story
"I found Janelle when I was at one of my lowest points in life. I found out in April 2021 that my husband has been unfaithful about 6 months after we got married back in 2018.. at this point we had a 1 year old daughter, I was heart broken and devastated to say the least..."
Erica's Story
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing
another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me
gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Steffi's Story
'"My husband is not a believer (yet) and I came to a place in my marriage after only 3 weeks where I realized I needed to find my security and acceptance from God first, not from my husband. And what's crazy cool is that when I changed and I took the pressure off my husband to prove his love for me. It shifted everything and now he's become more loving to me...without me even asking!"
Daphne's Story
What Janelle showed me was that there was a missing piece in my marriage and that missing piece was Jesus.
Although we attended church every Sunday as a married couple, there was no real basis and foundation for our marriage. I needed someone to show us the right way. I began to pray for my husband, and he began to change his behavior.
I dedicated myself to the process, and I rededicated my life to Christ. I began to see the change take place. This process helped change the trajectory of my marriage. My husband and I are no longer “enemies” by the grace of God. As a matter of fact, we are becoming all God has planned for us to be!
Lauren's Story
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
Words can’t describe what working with Marriage Ignite did for me personally. I feel like a new person after this process.
Kara's Story
The healing and breakthrough I've experienced has been life changing for a better future not just for me but my marriage. I learned to look at my husband thru God's eyes, where I see flaws in him God has showed me, he sees beauty.
I learned to hear God's voice and seek his wisdom and understanding in all things. Without God I am incapable of loving my husband the way he deserves to be loved.
I'm so grateful and blessed that God brought Mike and Janelle onto my life and cannot wait to see what the future holds for me in my Christ given identity and purpose and for my marriage to be God centered and flourishing in Unity and Love.
Carmen's Story
After 8 long months of separation, I am so thankful to say my marriage is being restored. He has moved back in, and we are creating a new marriage. We do not want the old marriage. It’s dead. A new marriage is being restored.
During the end of the separation, even though still believing for the miracle, I had peace in my life for the first time in a long time. It was like once I totally surrendered my husband to God, things started changing. It’s been a miracle!
All the things I was praying for is coming to pass. God is so good. He hates divorce. The devil is a liar and has no power over your marriage. Take action today!
Mardee's Story
I experienced countless encounters with God during my time with Janelle and the biggest one was I do not need to use my voice anymore to force an outcome, but allow God to open the doors.
When I finally surrendered my agenda and allowed God to lead, there was a shift in my daily walk which created a shift in my marriage and family. The shift created a PEACE within. The coaching I received from Janelle was all from the Holy Spirit.
He led her and she was so gentle, and she prays with you and her prayers are healing. My story is now as a Godly wife I see it is possible through God nothing is impossible. Luke 1:37. My job is to allow God to work through me and allow God to work through my husband. God does not need me to do His job. He has it all in His hands. I trust Him wholeheartedly
Lisa's Story
My life is truly changed!!! My husband is in Love with me again!!!
Thank you for being obedience. I've cried and cried and cried!!! I’ve heard all of this before. But your love for Yeshua truly comes through your work making the transition from our head knowledge to heart knowledge.
My husband loves my true identity. I am not an angry control freak anymore!!! Lol
I am wise wife who honors and respects her husband.
He wants to be around me, he wants to talk to me, he wants to touch me and kiss me he wants to have sex with the woman that he loves, and he is safe with.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard this before?
You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”
The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.
Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.
What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.
Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through text, email and my private, members only Facebook group.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.
But here’s what makes me different…
I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.
I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.
I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.
I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.
And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.
This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my husband wants help too?
That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.
But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.
And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.
So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.
But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.
This part starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes — absolutely.
This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.
✅ And full access to our private Wise Wives Facebook community — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.
You're never in this alone.
We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.
But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.
If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.
So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”
Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.
And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.
What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?
So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.
The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.
My method is:
? Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.
? Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.
? Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.
? Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).
? Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.
And most importantly?
You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.
We start with you — and let God do the rest.
Will this work for me?
Here’s the truth… I don’t know.
Truly, because I don’t know if you’ll do the work, and allow God to do the work within you.
But here’s what I do know…you will be a different person on the other side of everything we will do together.
And when you change, everything around you changes.
I can’t make any promises because ALL of this will be up to your efforts and your commitment to seeing this through.
And what I also know is that you can’t keep living like this and something needs to radically change.
And that change has to begin with you.
Is there ongoing support after the 8 weeks?
YES! We offer a month to month academy called Flourish. It's designed to help you walk out your calling as a women, called by God to lead in every are of your life.
Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
How your words become a weapon of life, not destruction. Let your tongue be led by the Spirit, not your flesh.
Your response is your responsibility – and how that empowers you.
How to build a friendship and have fun again. Get your best friend back.
What you need to have in place to support your husband and walk out your mission.
HOW DOES THIS ALL WORK?
STRUCTURE? EXPECTATIONS? WORKLOAD?
LET'S PUT THIS ALL TOGETHER...
When you decide to start, you begin immediately so you can begin the healing process today.
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WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
OK...BUT WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
My intensive is designed for these 3 types of situations. If you’ve had any of these thoughts, this will absolutely help you.
What my students are saying...
Ashley's Testimony
"I found Janelle when I was at one of my lowest points in life. I found out in April 2021 that my husband has been unfaithful about 6 months after we got married back in 2018.. at this point we had a 1 year old daughter, I was heart broken and devastated to say the least..."
Steffi's Testimony
"My husband is not a believer (yet) and I came to a place in my marriage after only 3 weeks where I realized I needed to find my security and acceptance from God first, not from my husband. And what's crazy cool is that when I changed and I took the pressure off my husband to prove his love for me. It shifted everything and now he's become more loving to me...without me even asking!"
Erica's Testimony
"We were on the brink of divorce. My husband had been seeing another woman and had become an alcoholic. He wanted me gone from his life and I wanted no part in his life..."
Daphne's Story
What Janelle showed me was that there was a missing piece in my marriage and that missing piece was Jesus.
Although we attended church every Sunday as a married couple, there was no real basis and foundation for our marriage. I needed someone to show us the right way. I began to pray for my husband, and he began to change his behavior.
I dedicated myself to the process, and I rededicated my life to Christ. I began to see the change take place. This process helped change the trajectory of my marriage. My husband and I are no longer “enemies” by the grace of God. As a matter of fact, we are becoming all God has planned for us to be!
Lauren's Story
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.
Words can’t describe what working with Marriage Ignite did for me personally. I feel like a new person after this process.
Lisa's Story
My life is truly changed!!! My husband is in Love with me again!!!
Thank you for being obedience. I've cried and cried and cried!!! I’ve heard all of this before. But your love for Yeshua truly comes through your work making the transition from our head knowledge to heart knowledge.
My husband loves my true identity. I am not an angry control freak anymore!!! Lol
I am wise wife who honors and respects her husband.
He wants to be around me, he wants to talk to me, he wants to touch me and kiss me he wants to have sex with the woman that he loves, and he is safe with.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven't I heard of this before?
You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”
The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.
Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.
What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.
Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.
What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?
About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.
Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.
Here’s it’s broken down…
Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).
Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.
Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.
The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.
Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?
Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.
You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.
Our live coaching calls are held every Friday at 10:00AM AZ GMT TIME. 11am MTN. 12pm CST and 1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.
What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?
I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.
And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.
This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.
And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.
We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.
How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?
There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.
We will be communicating through text, email and my private, members only Facebook group.
You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.
What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?
I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.
But here’s what makes me different…
I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.
I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.
I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.
I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.
And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.
This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.
What if my husband wants help too?
That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.
But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.
We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.
And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.
So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.
But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.
This part starts with you.
Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?
Yes — absolutely.
This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:
✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.
✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.
✅ And full access to our private Wise Wives Facebook community — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.
You're never in this alone.
We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.
How long is it going to take to save my marriage?
That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.
But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.
If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.
So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”
Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.
And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.
What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?
So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.
The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.
My method is:
? Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.
? Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.
? Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.
? Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).
? Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.
And most importantly?
You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.
We start with you — and let God do the rest.
Will this work for me?
Answer Body
Question Title
Absolutely. I have my Flourishing Academy that most of my wives decide to join because they want not only community but they want to ensure they're making the changes they've made stick. You've more than likely been operating a certain way for years and with that, requires retaining your mind to think differently and for many women, they want to continue with the momentum they started. We will discuss individually when we meet with you if this will be the right fit. But just know...there is a TON of support for you moving forward.
Week 8: Creating Lasting Change
The Wise Wives knows the power of her words and can use her tounge build up her husband and the marriage.
The Wise Wives knows how to control her responses.
The Wise Wives knows how to be a friend.
The Wise Wives knows how to support her husband.
GETTING STARTED
Single Pay (save more!)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,997 USD
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
Split Pay (2 payments)
YOUR PRICE TODAY:
$2,000 USD x 2*
*$2,000 today & $2,000 in 30 days.
8 weeks of video course content (16+ hrs with lifetime access)
Weekly 2 hour group coaching sessions with me and my team with direct answers, feedback and coaching.
3 - private one on one coaching sessions (60 mins).
Private Facebook community support for questions, support and encouragement.
Liftime access to all of my bonus material within your backend portal.
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
Ashley's Testimony
"Don’t hesitate… And I’m serious.. Run, don’t walk to sign up for mentorship with Mike and Janelle. They will teach you FOUNDATIONAL concepts that will make your life and marriage better no matter how bad or good you think it is right now."
Erica's Testimony
"We are becoming what we were always meant to be. We are in a place that I never knew we could get to, and it keeps getting better every day."
Frequently Asked Questions
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.