You Don't Have to Wait for Him to Change. You Go First — and Watch What God Does.
The Biblical blueprint that has helped 4,600+ wives find hope, healing, and a radically different marriage — even when their husband wasn't ready to get help.
The Biblical blueprint that has helped 4,600+ wives find hope, healing, and a radically different marriage — even when their husband wasn't ready to get help.

Our story began in a packed nightclub — we joked we’d never get married or have kids and spent our nights chasing parties, not God. I was hard, controlling, determined to fix everything on my own. But I was also lonely. Then, God got a hold of my heart. I started praying for Mike, but I worked on myself first. I learned to let go, listen more, control less. Mike quit drinking. We built trust, not overnight — but over 27 years, through 3 kids and a lot of failure and grace. Here’s the wild part: 90% of the time, it’s the wife who reaches out first. That’s exactly what happened with us. That’s why I always tell wives — don’t wait for him to change. You go first. When he sees it’s safe to grow, he usually follows. Everything God taught me on that path is inside The Unwavering Wife. This is my mission, for any woman who feels alone in her marriage. I built this for you.


Our story began in a packed nightclub — we joked we’d never get married or have kids and spent our nights chasing parties, not God. I was hard, controlling, determined to fix everything on my own. But I was also lonely. Then, God got a hold of my heart. I started praying for Mike, but I worked on myself first. I learned to let go, listen more, control less. Mike quit drinking. We built trust, not overnight — but over 27 years, through 3 kids and a lot of failure and grace. Here’s the wild part: 90% of the time, it’s the wife who reaches out first. That’s exactly what happened with us. That’s why I always tell wives — don’t wait for him to change. You go first. When he sees it’s safe to grow, he usually follows. Everything God taught me on that path is inside The Unwavering Wife. This is my mission, for any woman who feels alone in her marriage. I built this for you.
Stop losing yourself — reclaim your identity, stop reacting out of fear and bring peace into your home.
Break free from begging and chasing — stand still spiritually and let God move.
Know when to speak and when to be silent — respond with wisdom, not just emotion.
Take back the spiritual atmosphere of your home — even if he's not leading.
Build a prayer life that actually shifts things — not just fills the time.
Get clear steps — no more spinning in fear and confusion.
You'll get 42 video lessons that you'll have lifetime access to where I equip you on being the wife God has called you to be.
You won’t walk away trying harder. You’ll walk away steadier, softer, clearer, grounded in God. The course is self-paced. Watch the videos and go through the guided activations at your own pace. One woman said she felt like a new wife within four days. Imagine six weeks from now — not perfect, but steady. Not striving, but grounded. And watching God move in ways you stopped believing were possible.
I gave my husband a new wife within four days. For the first time in years, I felt hope — and two weeks later, he actually started talking again. I couldn't believe what God was doing. - Dawn B.
Dawn B.

"My husband had moved out on December 31st, the day after our 20 year anniversary. Praise God, he moved back home the same day I finished the course!" -Carrie G.
Carrie G.

I've been a believer since I was 8 years old, been through and read every book/info on marriage on the planet, and I've NEVER been so humbled in my entire life by what you shared. -Monica B.
Monica B.

Is your situation too far gone? Women from all walks — ruins, just surviving, or 'okay but numb' — have found breakthrough here. 4,600+ wives across all three had the same question, and now they're living new stories.
Tried before and nothing worked? This isn’t about new techniques. It’s heart surgery with Jesus. When the root changes, the fruit changes.

The Unwavering Wife Video Course — 42 self-paced video modules you can start today (Value: $197)
Guided PDF Activations and Exercises — get reflection and action steps that stick.
The "Dream Marriage" Vision Framework — clarity on what you’re believing for.
You'll get clear direction for your next steps. You’ll stop spinning in confusion and fear and gain grounded, God-led clarity on what to do next and what to stop doing, without pressure or panic.
30 Day Money Back Guarantee - If you're not happy, we'll refund you your money.
You will have lifetime access to the entire course library.
If you feel my course didn’t serve you, I’ve made this simple - you'll be fully refunded within 30 days of purchase — No questions asked.

Four thousand, six hundred+ women have seen breakthroughs for just $47. This is the most affordable, faith-filled step you can take for your marriage today.
Every day you wait is another day of distance, silence, and slow drift. The cost of waiting is higher than $47. You’re not buying a course. You’re showing your marriage is worth $47, and you’re ready to go first.
You have a 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee. Go through the course risk-free. If you don’t feel hope, clarity, and direction, you get a full refund. No questions.
4,600+ wives chose to go first. Your marriage could be the next story of redemption.
Is this different than your Wise Wives Intensive?
Yes, the Wise Wives Intensive is very different.
The Unwavering Wife is a self-paced online video course. You move through it on your own schedule and apply the tools at your own pace. It gives you biblical truth, practical direction, PDFs, and guided activations to help you start seeing change.
The Wise Wives Intensive is a high-touch coaching experience.
In the Intensive, you get:
• Weekly live group coaching calls
• Individual one-on-one coaching calls
• A private community of women walking the same road
• Deep inner healing work focused on you—your heart, your wounds, your patterns, and your spiritual growth
This isn’t just about learning what to do in your marriage. It’s about doing deep work so you can heal, grow, and show up differently—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally.
If I am single or engaged is this for you?
Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?
What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?
If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.
What if we’re separated?
If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.
If there is physical abuse is this for me?
No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.
Is this a course, PDF, book, coaching?
This is a self-paced online course you can move through on your own schedule. It includes a few assignments, activations, and printable PDFs to help you put everything into action.
Will this help if my husband is an alcoholic?
This course can help you, but it’s important to be honest and clear.
The Unwavering Wife focuses on you—your healing, your boundaries, your spiritual strength, and how you respond in the midst of very hard situations. It will help you gain clarity, stop living in survival mode, and begin walking in wisdom instead of confusion or fear.
That said, alcoholism is serious and often requires professional support. While we can’t replace licensed treatment or recovery programs, we can help you discern what steps to take next and guide you toward a healthy, biblical pathway forward.
You don’t have to figure this out alone. We help you see clearly, get grounded, and know when additional support is needed—while staying anchored in God through the process.
Are we biblically based?
Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.
How long does it take to work through this course?
It's self-paced and you'll have lifetime access to the entire video library.
What if I’m not satisfied with the course and want a refund?
Although I can’t promise specific outcomes in your marriage—because every situation is different—I do stand behind the value of what you’ll receive. If you feel the course didn’t serve you, we’ve made this simple. Email us at Support@IdentityPointCoaching.com within 30 days of your purchase and include your order receipt. We’ll take care of your refund, no hassle.