You've Been Praying, Trying, and Holding It Together. But Nothing Is Changing. Here's Why — And What Actually Works.

For the wife who loves God, loves her husband, and is quietly falling apart inside.

The Wise Wives Intensive is a faith-based, Holy Spirit-led 8-week coaching experience for wives ready to heal from betrayal, infidelity, broken trust, or addiction — and rebuild their marriage from the inside out.

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I know what it feels like to be on your knees, out of answers, wondering if God is even listening.

In 2005, I hit my breaking point. One afternoon, desperate and angry, I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and sobbed, 'Something is wrong with me.' I was exhausted from trying to fix Mike and fighting for my relationship, and feeling completely alone. I tried everything my way, and things only got worse. It wasn't until I surrendered and did things God's way that true change began. With support, guidance, and a lot of prayer, God rebuilt my marriage. That journey is why, for more than 15 years, I've coached over 1,000 wives through their own stories of heartbreak, healing, and hope—just like you.

I’m Janelle—lover of Jeus, wife, mom and co-founder of Marriage Ignite and Identity Point Coaching. I walk the talk: 15 years, 1,000+ wives, and a marriage rebuilt by God's grace. If you’re here, something inside you already knows: it's time. Let’s talk about what’s actually possible for your marriage.

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I know what it feels like to be on your knees, out of answers, wondering if God is even listening.

In 2005, I hit my breaking point. One afternoon, desperate and angry, I swept everything off my desk, dropped to my knees, and sobbed, 'Something is wrong with me.' I was exhausted from trying to fix Mike, fighting for my relationship, and feeling completely alone. I tried everything my way, and things only got worse. It wasn't until I surrendered and did things God's way that true change began. With support, guidance, and a lot of prayer, God rebuilt my marriage. That journey is why, for more than 15 years, I've coached over 1,000 wives through their own stories of heartbreak, healing, and hope—just like you.

I’m Janelle—lover of Jesus, wife, mom and co-founder of Marriage Ignite and Identity Point Coaching. I walk the talk: 15 years, 1,000+ wives, and a marriage rebuilt by God's grace. If you’re here, something inside you already knows: it's time. Let’s talk about what’s actually possible for your marriage.

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Here's what becomes possible when a wife does this work.

Click to buyOk Janelle, I'm ready to Become a Wise Wife!

The wife you want to be — and the marriage you're praying for — is on the other side of this decision.

Years of counseling. Months spent just surviving. The real cost of doing nothing is more pain, regret and missed hope.

Are you quietly tiptoeing through heartache? Are you carrying it all alone? Or do you feel like you've tried everything but nothing is working?...This was built for you.

Testimonies

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Daphne's Story

"What Janelle showed me was that there was a missing piece in my marriage and that missing piece was Jesus.

Although we attended church every Sunday as a married couple, there was no real basis and foundation for our marriage. I needed someone to show us the right way. I began to pray for my husband, and he began to change his behavior.

I dedicated myself to the process, and I rededicated my life to Christ. I began to see the change take place. This process helped change the trajectory of my marriage. My husband and I are no longer “enemies” by the grace of God. As a matter of fact, we are becoming all God has planned for us to be!"

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Lauren's Story

"When we got married, although our marriage wasn’t failing by any means, I wanted to work with Janelle because marriage was brand new to me. I had never been a wife before, and I was so used to being single and independent.

Words can’t describe what working with Marriage Ignite did for me personally. I feel like a new person after this process."

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Kara's Story

"The healing and breakthrough I've experienced has been life changing for a better future not just for me but my marriage. I learned to look at my husband thru God's eyes, where I see flaws in him God has showed me, he sees beauty.

I learned to hear God's voice and seek his wisdom and understanding in all things. Without God I am incapable of loving my husband the way he deserves to be loved.

I'm so grateful and blessed that God brought Mike and Janelle into my life and cannot wait to see what the future holds for me in my God-given identity and purpose and for my marriage to be God centered and flourishing!"

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Carmen's Story

"After 8 long months of separation, I am so thankful to say my marriage is being restored. He has moved back in, and we are creating a new marriage. We do not want the old marriage. It’s dead. A new marriage is being restored.

During the end of the separation, even though still believing for the miracle, I had peace in my life for the first time in a long time. It was like once I totally surrendered my husband to God, things started changing. It’s been a miracle!

All the things I was praying for is coming to pass. God is so good. He hates divorce. The devil is a liar and has no power over your marriage. Take action today!"

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Mardee's Story

"I experienced countless encounters with God during my time with Janelle and the biggest one was I do not need to use my voice anymore to force an outcome, but allow God to open the doors.

When I finally surrendered my agenda and allowed God to lead, there was a shift in my daily walk which created a shift in my marriage and family. The shift created a PEACE within. The coaching I received from Janelle was all from the Holy Spirit.

He led her and she was so gentle, and she prays with you and her prayers are healing. My story is now as a Godly wife I see it is possible through God nothing is impossible. Luke 1:37. My job is to allow God to work through me and allow God to work through my husband. God does not need me to do His job. He has it all in His hands. I trust Him wholeheartedly."

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Lisa's Story

"My life is truly changed!!! My husband is in Love with me again!!!

Thank you for being obedience. I've cried and cried and cried!!! I’ve heard all of this before. But your love for Yeshua truly comes through your work making the transition from our head knowledge to heart knowledge.

My husband loves my true identity. I am not an angry control freak anymore!!! Lol

I am wise wife who honors and respects her husband.

He wants to be around me, he wants to talk to me, he wants to touch me and kiss me he wants to have sex with the woman that he loves, and he is safe with."

Here's everything included in the Wise Wives Intensive — and what it's worth.

  • Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions with our team ($900 value) — Personalized guidance at key points in your journey.

  • Weekly 2-hour live group coaching calls ($1,600 value) — Real-time answers and support from Janelle and her team.

  • 8 Weeks of self-paced video modules ($1,500 value) — Move forward on your own schedule, no guesswork. Plus, you'll have lifetime access to my entire video Wise Wives video library.

  • Private online community group ($1,000 value) — Pray, share, and connect with women who get it.

Total value: $5,000+

Your investment today: $2,997 (USD). That's less than most spend on months of counseling — and without this level of structure, equipping and faith-based, personal support.

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Here's everything included in the Wise Wives Intensive — and what it's worth.

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  • Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions with our team ($900 value) — Personalized guidance at key points in your journey.

  • Weekly 2-hour live group coaching calls ($1,600 value) — Real-time answers and support from Janelle and her team.

  • 8 Weeks of self-paced video modules ($1,500 value) — Move forward on your own schedule, no guesswork. Plus, you'll have lifetime access to my entire video Wise Wives video library.

  • Private online community group ($1,000 value) — Pray, share, and connect with women who get it.

Total value: $5,000+

Your investment today: $2,997 (USD). That's less than most spend on months of counseling — and without this level of structure, equipping and faith-based, personal support.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Are we biblically based?

    • Everything we teach comes straight from the Word of God. We believe the Bible holds the only true blueprint for marriage—and Jesus is the only way to lasting transformation. No matter how broken things may feel, any marriage can be radically restored when you choose to do it God’s way. Without intentionally inviting the power of Jesus into the process, we’re left trying to solve spiritual problems with human strength—and that will never be enough. But with Him? Nothing is impossible.

  • If I am single or engaged is this for you?

    • Yes! This course is about becoming the kind of woman who builds a Christ-centered marriage, and that journey doesn’t start at the altar—it starts now. Whether you’re waiting on God’s timing or preparing for marriage soon, the truth and tools in this course will give you a head start. You’ll learn how to walk in your identity, how to love with wisdom, and how to respond to a future husband in a way that honors God and protects your heart. You’re not behind—you’re actually in a powerful position to lay a solid foundation before the storms ever come. Why wait to figure it out later when you can be equipped now?

  • What if I am the only one fighting for the marriage?

    • If your husband is checked out—emotionally shut down, spiritually cold, or just going through the motions—it’s easy to feel invisible, unloved, and stuck. But hear this: God sees you. He knows what’s really going on behind the silence, and He hasn’t left you alone in it. A checked-out husband doesn’t mean a dead marriage. It means there’s a gap that God Himself can fill while He works on your husband’s heart. This course will help you stay steady, walk in peace, and respond in a way that invites healing without losing yourself in the process. You don’t have to beg, chase, or fix him. You get to become the kind of woman who changes the atmosphere of her home simply by being anchored in Christ. Don’t underestimate what God can do through your faithfulness—even when he’s tuned out.

  • What if we’re separated?

    • If you’re separated right now, don’t count yourself out—God sure hasn’t. Separation doesn’t disqualify you from seeing breakthrough; it actually puts you in a position where God can move in ways that defy human logic. This season, as painful as it is, can be holy ground. When a wife surrenders her heart to God, even while her husband is distant or gone, she becomes a vessel for healing, intercession, and transformation. The same God who parted seas, raised the dead, and softened the heart of kings is still working today—and He’s not limited by your current living situation. Your prayers still matter. Your obedience still shakes things in the spiritual realm. And your love, when rooted in Christ, can still bear powerful fruit. Don’t let the word “separated” steal your hope. It might just be the space where God writes the most powerful chapter of your marriage story.

  • If there is physical abuse is this for me?

    • No, if you are in danger or you or your kids feel unsafe we recommend you get professional help.

  • If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard this before?

    • You might be wondering, “Is this really real? If this kind of transformation is possible, why haven’t I heard it before?”

    • The truth is, most of us were never taught this—maybe you did premarital counseling or learned teamwork and communication, but no one prepared you for the battle happening inside your own heart, soul, and story.

    • Many couples walk into marriage carrying years of unhealed wounds, and most churches or even Christian counseling don’t always know how to address those deeper places.

    • What makes this different is that it doesn’t stop at surface-level tools—it invites Jesus into the healing process to restore your mind, emotions, identity, and spirit.

    • Because real change doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from going deeper with Him.

  • What’s the weekly time commitment I should be expecting?

    • About 4 hours per week (max) during our 8-weeks together. I designed this program so no matter how busy you are, this is easily manageable.

    • Most of my clients are busy career professionals, business owners, moms and they have a lot on their plate already, so I designed this structure for every wife.

    • Here’s it’s broken down…

    • Weekly live coaching Zooms: 2 hours (once a week).

    • Your 3 - 1:1’s (60’s mins each) you schedule when is best for you. We have these scheduled right away in week 1, then week 4 and then in week 8.

    • Training content and videos (pre-recorded in your members site): 1-2 hours (per week). And remember, you’ll have lifetime access to all your video content.

    • The weekly coaching Zooms are recorded so even if you must jump off early or miss one, don’t worry you’ll be able to access the recording later.

  • Are the calls on Zoom? How does that work?

    • Yes, we use Zoom so we can see you and build connection. All you need is a computer or phone.

    • You will want to have a journal and pen because you’ll probably take lots of notes.

    • Our live coaching calls are held every Wednesday at 10:00AM PST/11am MTN/12pm CST/1pm EST. or wherever you may be in the world.

    • What if the Zoom time doesn’t work for me?

    • I totally get it — life is full, especially for wives and moms juggling so much.

    • And while we know one time won’t work perfectly for everyone, we’ve seen over and over that when something matters — you find a way to make room for it.

    • This is an opportunity to get creative — to carve out space not just for another meeting, but for your breakthrough.

    • And remember — This is only for 8 weeks of your life. Every single call is recorded, so even if you can’t join live, you’ll never miss the support, the strategy, or the Spirit-led encouragement waiting for you.

    • We’ll meet you where you’re at — and cheer you on every step of the way.

  • How will I be able to communicate with you while we're working together?

    • There will be many ways to communicate with us. We believe communication is everything.

    • We will be communicating through text, email and my private online community group.

    • You will receive a welcome email once you sign up.

  • What makes you different from a counselor or therapist?

    • I want to honor counselors and therapists because they play an important role.

    • But here’s what makes me different…

    • I’m not here to just help you process feelings or talk in circles week after week. I’m here to help you heal, grow, and take Spirit-led action that produces real change.

    • I don’t just ask, “How does that make you feel?” I give you biblical wisdom, emotional tools, and proven strategy to move forward.

    • I don’t diagnose or label you — I remind you who you are in Christ and help you walk in your true identity as a godly wife.

    • I’m not just trained in theory — I’ve lived this. I’ve walked through betrayal, breakdown, healing, and full restoration — and I coach from experience, not just education.

    • And most importantly? I don’t just invite you to heal… I invite the Holy Spirit into the process — because without Him, we’re just doing self-help.

    • This is mentorship. It’s discipleship. It’s a battle plan for breakthrough.

  • What if my husband wants help too?

    • That’s amazing — and honestly, that’s our hope! We love when husbands are ready to grow and get support too.

    • But here’s what I want to lovingly say: Don’t wait on him. Because the longer you wait for someone else to be “ready,” the more time the enemy must steal your peace, delay your breakthrough, and keep you stuck in survival mode.

    • We’ve seen it again and again: When a wife takes the first step — when she decides to heal, grow, and walk in her God-given identity — it unlocks something powerful in the atmosphere of your home. It softens hearts. It shifts dynamics.

    • And yes, it often stirs something inside your husband too.

    • So, if he’s open to help — praise God. I will guide you in how to invite him in later to work directly with my husband, Mike.

    • But don’t let his timeline delay your transformation.

    • This part starts with you.

  • Will I get feedback on what’s happening in my specific marriage?

    • Yes — absolutely.

    • This isn’t a one-way course. You’ll get:

    • ✅ Weekly live group coaching + Q&A calls for 8 weeks — where you can ask real questions and get direct, Spirit-led feedback.

    • ✅ Three private 1-on-1 coaching sessions — so we can walk closely with you, celebrate your progress, and help you navigate anything that feels heavy or confusing.

    • ✅ And full access to our private online community group — filled with other faith-filled, committed wives who are in this with you.

    • You're never in this alone.

    • We walk with you every step of the way — with truth, strategy, prayer, and love.

  • How long is it going to take to save my marriage?

    • That’s a great question — and one I hear a lot. The truth is: every marriage is different, and there’s no exact timeline.

    • But here's what I can tell you: Change can begin immediately — in your heart, your mindset, and your atmosphere — the moment you decide to show up differently.

    • If you’re committed to this journey — and you’re willing to do the work with support, wisdom, and God’s leading — restoration isn’t just possible… it’s inevitable.

    • So instead of asking “How long will it take?” Start asking: “Am I willing to begin today?”

    • Because your yes… is what unlocks the healing.

    • And one last thing I don’t know if your marriage will be saved but here's what I do know is that you will be able to lay your head down at night and know that you tried everything.

  • What makes the Wise Wives Intensive different from other programs?

    • So many marriage programs focus on surface-level communication tips or behavior management — but they don’t go deep enough to create real transformation.

    • The Wise Wives Intensive is different because it doesn’t just teach you how to "fix your marriage" — It helps you heal your heart, hear God clearly, and walk in your true identity as a woman of God.

    • My method is:

    • Faith-based — Rooted in biblical truth, not just psychology.

    • Emotionally strategic — We help you regulate emotions, navigate triggers, and rewire unhealthy patterns.

    • Spirit-led — We don’t just give tools, we bring in prayer, discernment, and Holy Spirit insight.

    • Highly personal — You get 1-on-1 coaching, live group sessions (where we will work with you one-on-one as well).

    • Identity-focused — We don’t just teach you what to do — we help you become who God created you to be.

    • And most importantly?

    • You don’t need your husband to be on board first for this to work.

    • We start with you — and let God do the rest.

  • Will this work for me?

    • Here’s the truth… I don’t know.

    • Truly, because I don’t know if you’ll do the work, and allow God to do the work within you.

    • But here’s what I do know…you will be a different person on the other side of everything we will do together.

    • And when you change, everything around you changes.

    • I can’t make any promises because ALL of this will be up to your efforts and your commitment to seeing this through.

    • And what I also know is that you can’t keep living like this and something needs to radically change.

    • And that change has to begin with you.

  • Is there ongoing support after the 8 weeks?

    • YES! We'll figure out what's the best route for you during your individual sessions because we have several options to give you continued support.

  • How is The Wise Wives Intensive different then The Unwavering Wife Course?

    • The Unwavering Wife course is a self-paced program with pre-recorded video lessons and practical tools you can start anytime, while the Wise Wives Intensive includes getting coached by Janelle and her team, different videos you watch weekly, weekly group coaching Zooms, one-on-one support, and personalized guidance to help you with your specific needs in your marriage.

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